mixed_papi Posted February 24, 2005 Posted February 24, 2005 my ex broke up with me 4 months ago we were together for 5 months. her excuse was she just thought its better to be friends and she likes being single. yea i know thats a stuped excuse neways.. i'm trying really hard to get over her, but its hard when you work with her and see her twice a week! we work at a&w. i dont give her anymore attention like before or i dont talk to her as much when i see her. she treats me different from the other people that work with me. i try talkin to her and she just gives me cut answers or i try to make her laugh and its like she doesnt care or she just smiles and thats it. she talks to other people and she laughs and jokes around with them. she trys to make me jealouse by saying "ohhh that guy that came in to order was HOT!" she says it out load soo i will hear. just recently a new guy started working and shes making a big fuss about how hot he is, thats all she talks about..and she says it infront of me and everyone else. honestly it does bother me because i dont know how to act. and i dont understand why she is acting like this. i was really good to her and i treated her the best. we were soo close and now its like i dont know her. she different with me. what should i do.??
gaara Posted February 24, 2005 Posted February 24, 2005 I'm in your situation now for a year now, the only thing you can do is ignore her, she is not part of your life anymore ... don't let her see you get affected by her actions ... hold your head up high.
westernxer Posted February 24, 2005 Posted February 24, 2005 Leave, and don't tell anyone you're doing so (other than your boss). In the meantime, ignore her and talk to other girls. She'll get jealous, then she'll tell you to knock it off because it's making her uncomfortable. It's called reverse psychology, and it'll drive her insane. Trust me on this one.
NTB Posted February 24, 2005 Posted February 24, 2005 i agree with westernxer try and get another job and move on some girls are just weird that way i guess but then again i don't understand girls so ........who knows what she is thinking
acidrein_08 Posted February 24, 2005 Posted February 24, 2005 Dude I don't understand you at all. 4 Months is way to long to still be getting jealous over someone. You need to let go of this girl and not worry about what she does becuase she is no longer with you and after 4 months you definently know she is not coming back. Stay or leave your job it does not matter but get out with some friends and start enjoying yourself, meet girls, have some fun and leave this girl in the past where she belongs. Good luck.
Author mixed_papi Posted February 24, 2005 Author Posted February 24, 2005 thanks for the advice. i kno she isnt coming back...shes really immature. but people are telling me if shes trying to make you jealous and give you a hard time and shes been doin it for a while now it means she still has feelings for you. but yea im gunna keep my head up high n just ignore her and talk to other gurls and make her jealous too haha. thanks again.
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