Easyguy14 Posted July 29, 2014 Posted July 29, 2014 Is it really that serious?! I just don't get it. She's posted stupid profiles on OKC looking for other women before throwing it in my face. She feels that its my duty to ask her out and since I haven't even though we've slept together and hung out a few times, she's sick and tired of men and me most of all. I didn't know what to say after hearing her tell me this tripe. Don't even know if she's really bi or pretending to be as punishment. This is a slap in the face to the true lesbians of society if she isn't.
kolleamm Posted July 29, 2014 Posted July 29, 2014 Is it really that serious?! I just don't get it. She's posted stupid profiles on OKC looking for other women before throwing it in my face. She feels that its my duty to ask her out and since I haven't even though we've slept together and hung out a few times, she's sick and tired of men and me most of all. I didn't know what to say after hearing her tell me this tripe. Don't even know if she's really bi or pretending to be as punishment. This is a slap in the face to the true lesbians of society if she isn't. Are you gonna put up with that bs or ignore her?
Keenly Posted July 30, 2014 Posted July 30, 2014 If she wants to go out but is mentally incapable of picking up the phone and asking if you would like to go do something, is this really the kind of woman you want to deal with?
Mrin Posted July 30, 2014 Posted July 30, 2014 The cray-cray is strong here. There are plenty of reasons to give bisexuality a try bit her stated reasoning isn't one of them. 1
Author Easyguy14 Posted July 30, 2014 Author Posted July 30, 2014 If she wants to go out but is mentally incapable of picking up the phone and asking if you would like to go do something, is this really the kind of woman you want to deal with? The thing is she was so cool up to this point. It kind of came out of left field. In case anyone's wondering this is the same lady from the Meetup.
ExpatInItaly Posted July 30, 2014 Posted July 30, 2014 The thing is she was so cool up to this point. It kind of came out of left field. In case anyone's wondering this is the same lady from the Meetup. Most people are cool in the beginning. She's showing you who she really is. Sounds manipulative. Stay away.
Smilecharmer Posted July 30, 2014 Posted July 30, 2014 Most people are cool in the beginning. She's showing you who she really is. Sounds manipulative. Stay away. I agree with Expat. I don't even understand why you don't just run far away from this odd behavior. If you made it clear that it was a FWB situation and now she is trying to manipulate you into dating her, it's extortion and its wrong. Plus, someone who would pretend to be bi for whatever reason sounds delusional. You don't just wake up one day bi to make an ultimatum.
d0nnivain Posted July 30, 2014 Posted July 30, 2014 That is insane. You and/or your failure to date her did not suddenly ignite some desire to be attracted to women. She is either a manipulative game player or she doesn't know her own mind. Neither of those options makes her a good long term prospect. I'd ease her out of your life sooner rather than later. You don't need this kind of drama.
Author Easyguy14 Posted July 30, 2014 Author Posted July 30, 2014 That is insane. You and/or your failure to date her did not suddenly ignite some desire to be attracted to women. She is either a manipulative game player or she doesn't know her own mind. Neither of those options makes her a good long term prospect. I'd ease her out of your life sooner rather than later. You don't need this kind of drama. Thanks everyone and I agree with all said here. I told her I don't think we're going to work out and she told me what "we" as if she had no clue and then told me she's gonna sign up with Plentyoffish and get drunk later with one of her male buddies. Yea she's a piece of work. Dropped!
Dork Vader Posted July 31, 2014 Posted July 31, 2014 I agree stay clear of this woman. She is not mentally stable. Someone that is mentally stable will not play games like this. They will straight out tell you I'd like to go out... Not try and force it or make you jealous which is what she is doing.
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