robert2387 Posted July 29, 2014 Posted July 29, 2014 When my EX had dumped me, I tried to get her back by chasing her with pleading, telling her nice things etc..she led me on to a dead end road where I found our she had someone else. Ok I got the point and I left her alone and stopped trying to reconcile. A month later she initiated contact with me asking how I've been and how things have been going. I replied with everything was ok and going well(even if they werent). I then asked the same and she went on about how she was happy and she even threw the I'm in love stuff at me, I said that I was happy for her and that was that. So this past week she has been texting me alot of I miss yous, I love you and I wanna get back together texts, she has been coming over and having sex with me, sleeping over and all that stuff single people do so I believe her she was missing me and wanting to reconcile. I find out she has a boyfriend still so I confront her and she says that she doesn't wanna lose him and that she knows she's selfish and a bad person. Who lies about beign happy and in love then goes and cheats on that person who supposedly makes you happy. She admits to me she's doing bad but won't admit to him?
NoLeafClover Posted July 29, 2014 Posted July 29, 2014 When my EX had dumped me, I tried to get her back by chasing her with pleading, telling her nice things etc..she led me on to a dead end road where I found our she had someone else. Ok I got the point and I left her alone and stopped trying to reconcile. A month later she initiated contact with me asking how I've been and how things have been going. I replied with everything was ok and going well(even if they werent). I then asked the same and she went on about how she was happy and she even threw the I'm in love stuff at me, I said that I was happy for her and that was that. So this past week she has been texting me alot of I miss yous, I love you and I wanna get back together texts, she has been coming over and having sex with me, sleeping over and all that stuff single people do so I believe her she was missing me and wanting to reconcile. I find out she has a boyfriend still so I confront her and she says that she doesn't wanna lose him and that she knows she's selfish and a bad person. Who lies about beign happy and in love then goes and cheats on that person who supposedly makes you happy. She admits to me she's doing bad but won't admit to him? This is when you just whip it out every chance you get and just F** until you find someone else. But of course realistically you can't do that because your feelings for her are too strong so you need to go NC and don't reply to her...also DO NOT TELL HER THAT YOU LOVE HER or MISS HER even if she tells you that..even as a response you do not tell your emotions. 1
me85 Posted July 29, 2014 Posted July 29, 2014 This is when you just whip it out every chance you get and just F** until you find someone else. But of course realistically you can't do that because your feelings for her are too strong so you need to go NC and don't reply to her...also DO NOT TELL HER THAT YOU LOVE HER or MISS HER even if she tells you that..even as a response you do not tell your emotions. ^^^^THIS^^^^ All of it, actually.
kbrew Posted July 29, 2014 Posted July 29, 2014 My personal view on this isnt going to be popular. Cheaters are callous, selfish, bastards. What you have here is a prime example of a person who simply doesnt care what she does to other people. Unfortunately in life the only way these people can learn is through a hard lesson. Once a cheater, always a cheater. People suggest circumstances make things different. No, trust is everything in a relationship, the moment one person cheats, its never a loving relationship again. So He needs to be told. She needs to learn that cheating is painful. Call me sadistic but its the only way these people learn. So you need to tell her boyfriend. If you call or text her fella, he will confront her and she will blatently lie. She might even be able to wiggle herself out of it. ive been cheated on and every time ive confronted ive been met with lies. Without proof your left with the hanging doubt. It needs to be expelled. So heres what you do. Try to meet up with her new fella, tell him she came on to you under the pretence she was single, dont tell him you slept together, but you thought he should know. Suggest booking a hotel room, let her in, let her undress, give him the signal to come in. Watch her feel the pain she inflicts on others. Call me a sadist. But cheating is unforgivable. Somebody who is prepared to do it needs to get it in their head. Either way, you need to give this girl the boot. Shes not providing you anything emotionally, and you can get sex from any girl. :l Hope this helps
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