johnsonracer Posted July 29, 2014 Share Posted July 29, 2014 im sorry about the way things ended between us. we just were not a good couple. you did a lot of horrible things to me, but i dont hate you. it was my fault for staying with you and not leaving you. it was very disrespectful with the way you treated me but i should have stood up for myself instea dof giving you multiple chances i do hope you find happiness in life. we did share some good times and i will remember those maybe one day we can meet up and talk but the balls in your court. if not oh well have a nice day Link to post Share on other sites
NoLeafClover Posted July 29, 2014 Share Posted July 29, 2014 So you are telling your ex what a terrible gf/bf they were..but the ball is on their court? Link to post Share on other sites
Author johnsonracer Posted July 29, 2014 Author Share Posted July 29, 2014 should i not give it to her? Link to post Share on other sites
Simon Phoenix Posted July 29, 2014 Share Posted July 29, 2014 should i not give it to her? God no. Never show that letter to her ever. Giving letters to exes is almost always a bad idea, and you giving her that letter would be worse than most. It's bitter as hell and makes you look weak. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
sooshi Posted July 29, 2014 Share Posted July 29, 2014 Absolutely not. It can't do anything positive. If you know you two didn't make a good couple and she treated you so terribly, and do you know this, then don't leave the ball in her court. Be thankful it's over, learn from it, and don't accept disrespectful treatment in your next relationship. Showing this to her would be giving her another chance. Another chance to disrespect you, most likely, even though I know that's not what you want. Go no contact on her. Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted July 29, 2014 Share Posted July 29, 2014 Don't give it to her. It won't change anything so what's the point. plus if she was so horrible, why even bother to leave the door open for her to come back? Just walk away with your head held high & don't look back. Link to post Share on other sites
Tbisb74 Posted July 29, 2014 Share Posted July 29, 2014 im sorry about the way things ended between us. we just were not a good couple. you did a lot of horrible things to me, but i dont hate you. it was my fault for staying with you and not leaving you. it was very disrespectful with the way you treated me but i should have stood up for myself instea dof giving you multiple chances i do hope you find happiness in life. we did share some good times and i will remember those maybe one day we can meet up and talk but the balls in your court. if not oh well have a nice day What a beautiful note. Now burn it, and never, ever mention it to anyone, ever again. EVER. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
ebt100 Posted July 30, 2014 Share Posted July 30, 2014 I agree that is a really bad note. Don't send it. If you feel the need to write anything, wait a little while and write something nicer. But man, at least write it, leave the envelope open, and sleep on it a couple nights. Link to post Share on other sites
irresolute Posted July 30, 2014 Share Posted July 30, 2014 Stop with the letters, texts, emails etc explaining what they don't give a sh.it to listen!! nothing will change the fact that they don't love you anymore. Nothing! You can improve, do cosmetic surgery, win the lottery, become the president of the US...they don't love you and never will. No, don't send any letter. PS. I guess I'm trying to convince myself as well 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Tbisb74 Posted July 30, 2014 Share Posted July 30, 2014 ..... If you feel the need to write anything, wait a little while and write something nicer..... Sooo ^^^this^^^ NOT. Ever. Never, ever, ever. Ever. Link to post Share on other sites
Author johnsonracer Posted July 31, 2014 Author Share Posted July 31, 2014 i wont giev it to her 1 Link to post Share on other sites
OK_computer Posted July 31, 2014 Share Posted July 31, 2014 Stop with the letters, texts, emails etc explaining what they don't give a sh.it to listen!! nothing will change the fact that they don't love you anymore. Nothing! You can improve, do cosmetic surgery, win the lottery, become the president of the US...they don't love you and never will. No, don't send any letter. PS. I guess I'm trying to convince myself as well Those two will have all my exes lined up at my doorstep. God they were so superficial and materialistic on hindsight. If I become prez ill tell my secret service to shoot on site. Link to post Share on other sites
Tbisb74 Posted July 31, 2014 Share Posted July 31, 2014 ...or...'sight', even..... 'On site' means they will have got their foot in the door and invited themselves in, already.... actually, you probably DO mean 'on site'...! Link to post Share on other sites
OK_computer Posted July 31, 2014 Share Posted July 31, 2014 ...or...'sight', even..... 'On site' means they will have got their foot in the door and invited themselves in, already.... actually, you probably DO mean 'on site'...! I actually meant to type sight but site makes sense too haha. Too much texting has destroyed any sense of my grammar. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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