shz93 Posted July 29, 2014 Posted July 29, 2014 I've been thinking a lot lately, when all this pain and heartbreak is in the past and I've moved on how could I possibly ever trust another woman? I couldn't go through this again but I don't want to avoid falling in love again either. I had the bombshell dropped on me and moved out the same day, it was horrible and I never seen it coming.
Philosoraptor Posted July 29, 2014 Posted July 29, 2014 Well you first have to heal. Once you've done that you will be able to judge people based on an individual level and not compare to something that happened in the past. Without the ability to give someone new a clean slate you are handicapping your chances of having a successful and healthy relationship.
Itspointless Posted July 29, 2014 Posted July 29, 2014 You have to decide every time if the gift of love is worth possible pain. I always compare it with a balance. I always tell myself that for the joy that I recieve I probably will pay with pain at one point. 1
Cmac Posted July 29, 2014 Posted July 29, 2014 I've been wondering this myself. I've been burned by every girl I've ever cared for. The most recent one, I genuinely never thought she would hurt me. She seemed different, but then I guess they all do at first. I had a hard enough time letting her in at the start, I duno how I'm gonna do it anymore..
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