She broke up with BF...Does she like me? Should I make my move now?

[RedneckRomeo]

I've had this huge crush on this one girl for a long time, and I recently found out she broke up with her old boyfriend about 2 weeks ago. How'd I find this out? Well I asked her. (sorta)

 

Actually it went kinda like this: I sent her an email about not being able to talk to her one night because it looked like she was busy and I didnt want to interrupt her. I told her that I had wanted to ask her if her man (if she had one) got her anything special for Valentines Day, and also mentioned how my Valentines Day was pretty dull without a girl or anything, but I didnt whine or complain or anything like that.

 

She writes back and tells me first that I could never interrupt her, to just grab her and start talking. Then she tells me "No, I DON'T have a man.", that she and her old boyfriend broke up the week before Valentines day, but sounds like it was coming for a while and she's glad it happened.

 

Then she asks me why I dont have a girl. Says I'm a little shy but am a good guy, and mentions she knows a few girls that like me...a lot...but no mention of who they might be. She ends it with a few words of encouragement - just to go for it, and just be myself.

 

What I'm wondering is if she could be one of those girls that like me (of course she could - but what are the chances?), and also if I should try and make a move with her now since she's free.

[kypepeo]

You'll never know until you ask. You have to take the risk and make your move but prepare yourself for the possibility that she may want to be just friends. It's a good thing that she said she's glad she broke it off with her boyfriend coz that shows chances of her being on the rebound are slim though it doesn't necessarily mean that she's ready to jump into a new relationship

[RedneckRomeo]

Well, I saw her this weekend - and it was awesome. She danced a lot with me, and I caught her looking at me a lot during the course of the night, we played around with the looks and gestures we gave each other all night. She even did a couple sexy dances just for me (well, everyone else saw em but they were directed at me) It was great. I love it when she looks at me.

 

Anyway - She isn't doing what she normally would do on the weekend coming up - and I wasn't going to be able to see her, so I had a couple ideas. I was going to invite her to go bowling with some of my friends - but her family is going out of town and she and her sister both have to take care of the farm while they're away and it was just at the wrong time. So I sent her an email and asked if she would be interested in doing something else this weekend - if she could find any free time, but I left it open to whatever because I wasn't sure if she was even interested yet.

 

I came home from work today and found an email from her saying that she was going to go out with some friends to see another band and that I was "welcome to come hang out with [them]....if want to" - She warned me though to beware - it was her night off - meaning it would be one hell of a time. As you probably figured out by now - I'm going to go have some fun with her and her friends - do something other than the usual with her. (She's part of a band too so I've always been going to see her perform, and have fun with her there - but we never really did anything else together) Its going to be great.

 

I know its not a date - its just a friend thing now - but I never really did anything much with her and her friends - never got invited along before. But depending on how things go - I might try my luck on a full-fledged date.