Mkk1975 Posted July 29, 2014 Posted July 29, 2014 Hi, I just moved out if my girlfriends house after dating 3 years. I was a single bachelor when we met and she had three kids and was divorced.. I know.. What was I thinking, right?! Well, love makes you do stamrsnge things and fell in love we did. Well, things were great when I lived an hour from her but I moved into her house in January 2012. I We started fighting a lot and had our disagreements. She told Me she would be open to having kids but then after I move in tells me that she doesn't want to have kids. I felt betrayed but since I loved her figured I could repress my feelings of wanting my own child. Stupid and I should have called it quits then, but onward I pushed. Looking back, we had a lot of blowout fights. Lastly, we had a big fight at a wedding and I decided to move out. I feel like I made the right choice. But I'm on vacation in South Carolina and she is down here too as we had originally planned the same trip. But since my parents live her I decided to come clear my head. (Hilton head is a small island, so we have almost run into each other) I am feeling depressed now though. Some If my furniture is still there and needs To be moved out but I am feeling like I want to sort of run back to Her. I know it's Because I'm scared Of The unknown. If anyone can help dissuade me And send me advice. Thanks!
Philosoraptor Posted July 29, 2014 Posted July 29, 2014 Personally my option might suck, but cut your vacation short and head back now to get your stuff out before she returns. That will help you cut the cord cleanly. The devil we know is too often the easier choice than the devil we don't. But what you know is not fulfilling your life and not bringing you enough happiness. Take care of yourself now and heal, and eventually you will meet someone more compatible. In the future do not sacrifice your future goals and desires for someone. Your happiness is important too and doesn't need to be something you sacrifice.
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