purplesoccer34 Posted July 29, 2014 Posted July 29, 2014 (edited) Did you ever have dreams about your ex, many months after breaking up with them? It's been nearly a year since I broke up with my ex-bf, but I had a dream about him last night. This was the second dream I had about him since we broke up, as far as I can remember. In the dream, he got very close to me and said, "You've liked me for a long time, and I could tell. You could tell I liked you too. You told me you were able to tell, because of the way I looked at you." He then got even closer to me. I hesitantly rested my head on his shoulder and then we ended up kissing. I wouldn't stop kissing him and he said, "Wow, I didn't know you've turned into such a good kisser. You've changed a lot, and I like it." And then I kept saying, "no no no, we have to stop. This isn't fair to your girlfriend." In the dream, I told my best friend what happened and she said, "It sounds like you guys are meant to be together forever." This is all so funny because during the relationship, I was too afraid to kiss him. I was very self-conscious around him because I was afraid he'd brand me as a horrible kisser. I know it sounds ridiculous, but I never initiated anything. If I was so uncomfortable kissing him, I knew he wasn't the right guy for me. Well, he does have a new girlfriend and I think they are perfect for each other. I'm truly over my ex and I'm actually happy that he's with this new girl. I'm friends with both of them, and support them wholeheartedly. I know that I would never want to go out with my ex again. In fact, I see him every now and then, and I don't feel anything. Of course, I love spending time with him, but I always just see him as a friend. But I don't understand where these dreams are coming from, especially since I don't think about him anymore. I actually had a similar dream two or three months ago, where we were cuddling and all and he said he was ready to leave his girlfriend to come back me. Is this a sign that I haven't really moved on? My conscious mind says that I'm definitely over him, but is my subconscious mind saying something different? Another thing is that in a few days, I'm about to go on a date with a guy I really like...I find it funny that this dream popped up just in time. Edited July 29, 2014 by purplesoccer34
Philosoraptor Posted July 29, 2014 Posted July 29, 2014 Dreams about an ex have nothing to do with being over them or not, but the fact that you question that could mean you're not 100% there yet. So are you over him or not? If yes, then pay the dreams no mind. If no, then don't get too serious with a new person yet until you're ready.
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