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Losing interest and desire for women.


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This is something I can't explain but gradually over the past 10 to 15 years, I have lost interest and desire in the female species. Western cultured women have repeatedly demonstrated to me what they prioritize in a man by their words and actions. Height, good looks, the allusion of being better protected with a taller guy, being able to wear high heels and still be shorter than the taller guy, and the ability to make her feel feminine and proud to have you on her arm, all at the same time.

 

From my experience, women hold on to and value these qualities very strongly in their formative years until menopause years. Women in their mid-late 50's and early 60's seem to be more open minded about having respect for men of all shapes and sizes. Some do learn at a very early age but most don't. Through age and experience, these women must have learned that it doesn't pay to discriminate against others based on something that they can't control.

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So you hate females...but only "western" ones? Do you think women in other cultures don't have the capacity to be shallow? The phrase "female species" is as insulting as it is technically incorrect; women are human beings, just like you. You might have better luck if you kept that in mind.

 

Many women don't care about height, myself included. Do I want to feel proud of the man on my arm? Sure! But that doesn't depend on whether he's tall and sexy or short and balding. I've dated just about every physical type of man imaginable and all that really mattered was the way he made my heart beat.

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Guys do the same thing towards women it happens the trick is finding the non judgmental ones you can get along with..

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So you hate females...but only "western" ones?

 

He said he's losing interest. Being indifferent does not mean hating, far from it actually.

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So you are ok with dating an unattractive obese girl who you aren't proud to have on your arm? That is great. Good for you for seeing only the inside. People have standards and preferences, not just women. If you can accept anything as long as she is breathing, that opens all kinds of doors for you in dating.

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Women are a specie all onto themselves, much like dogs would be, is that it? I guess that's issue number one: generalizing from the action of some that the whole group behaves the same way.

 

I know women. Some of them are my friends, my family. No two behaves exactly the same way and no two believes exactly the same thing. What you perceive to be true is a distortion or an ideological bender you're indulging in. Good luck with that!

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So you are ok with dating an unattractive obese girl who you aren't proud to have on your arm? That is great. Good for you for seeing only the inside. People have standards and preferences, not just women. If you can accept anything as long as she is breathing, that opens all kinds of doors for you in dating.

 

If he is ugly & obese then yes he should be okay with dating a woman at his end of the physical/desirability spectrum. If he is not then it is not quite the same analogy. If he is average height & looks and is complaining that too many of the (single) average height & looks women want better than they are over their equivalent (him supposedly) then that is not the equivalent of average him not chasing after someone who is less than he is. The expectation standards are not the equivalent. Of course we don't know if his expectations are reasonable.

Someone saying they are not shallow but instantly dismissing the majority of non attractive persons in the first 2 seconds of seeing them, doesn't exactly mean they are what they say. Most people are shallow to various degrees, due to the nature of wanting someone we find attractive. I think people have issues with others who insist on expecting more that what they have to offer. Of course that all gets muddy when the people say its not entitlement but just preferences.

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