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lonegirl

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Today is the official day we broke up. We are still living together but I'm soon leaving, and i will never see him again (he's from another country).

 

It's so painful, damn! We are still in love, but I was having a hard time adapting here. Plus he's too emotional and a few sessions of drinking leading to verbal abuse broke me in pieces... We could never recover it as before and I don't feel good in here so far away from my family and culture.

 

I LOVE HIM. So much it hurts. I drank today, I hate it but I did and now that I'm sober I'm feeling it stronger.

 

He's also depressed at the moment and left tonight, dunno where... By the clothes I suppose he went to his parents or brother. Not sure. But I'm so alone.

 

If somebody here could please talk to me a bit to help me in this hard time I would be forever grateful. And I hope those who are hurting as me can surpass this ASAP. I know. I know!:(

me85 Established Member

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Oh no, I'm so sorry. BIG HUG from me to you! :love:

 

I can only imagine how being in a whole other country and breaking up with someone you love so much but may never see again feels.

 

I'm single. My last BU was a year ago & it was the worst. I loved him more than I have ever loved anyone and the BU nearly destroyed me.

 

I'm no one to give advice on drinking but please be careful drinking while you feel miserable. It may become habitual and before you know it you have one more problem you didn't need in your life.

 

I know you are feeling really anxious right now but it sounds like you are doing what's best for you. No one knows how their life will turn out later on. If you both still love each other then maybe fate will take care of everything.

 

Timing in life is everything. There may be another time for the two of you in the future. Right now, try to stay focused on the positives and what all you have to do once you return home. Your finances, a big hang out party with friends and family...ANYTHING to keep busy and distract yourself with. This will help A LOT.

 

Please remember that this too shall pass. It's a learning experience, one that is going to make you all the more wise and all the more strong.

 

Your english/grammar is very good. No worries! (=

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