Chi townD Posted August 28, 2014 Posted August 28, 2014 If she thinks it was a mistake, then fine! It was a mistake. But, that's a mistake she'll have to live with because you don't have to. Always remember that this mistake was putting more value on someone other than you. She valued her Ex more than you to make her kick you to the curb to go running after him. HE got what he wanted from her and then blew her world up when he told her that he sleeps with guys too! (I have a hard time with this Bi-sexual crap). If your straight, it's all good! If your gay, it's all good! If your Bi....well, now your just being frickin greedy. Well, she couldn't handle being in a relationship with a gay guy. So, she came running back to you. Dude, if you were intimate with her, go see your doctor and just get checked out for STD's. 1
Author nightowl1 Posted August 28, 2014 Author Posted August 28, 2014 If she thinks it was a mistake, then fine! It was a mistake. But, that's a mistake she'll have to live with because you don't have to. Always remember that this mistake was putting more value on someone other than you. She valued her Ex more than you to make her kick you to the curb to go running after him. HE got what he wanted from her and then blew her world up when he told her that he sleeps with guys too! (I have a hard time with this Bi-sexual crap). If your straight, it's all good! If your gay, it's all good! If your Bi....well, now your just being frickin greedy. Well, she couldn't handle being in a relationship with a gay guy. So, she came running back to you. Dude, if you were intimate with her, go see your doctor and just get checked out for STD's. She came back to me saying it was a mistake before she found out about him being with guys. And I used a condom. But also, how do you keep your strength when she finally realizes shes blocked and contacts me. I didn't tell her she was blocked, i just made her leave and blocked her.
johnson_j Posted August 28, 2014 Posted August 28, 2014 Man this girl is TOXIC. Anyone who threatens to break stuff because she doesn't get her way. I cut a girl out last week who threatened to slam my new car door into a wall because she was mad....Anyways. YOU stay strong. Keep her blocked and don't give in. Just THINK of what she did - she chose another guy, and when he didn't choose her back, she chose you. Therefore you're second best, an option to her. Now is your turn to have the upper hand and decline being her option. If you want in a few months when you've stopped caring, use her for sex, but don't be HER option. 1
SycamoreCircle Posted August 28, 2014 Posted August 28, 2014 Read the writing on the wall: She is not relationship material. Go NC. Get your mind off of all these ridiculous, sensational details. Find a new hobby. Meet some new, emotionally stable girls at places and parties she won't attend. Start working out. Go on a little trip. Get away from GROUND ZERO.
Author nightowl1 Posted August 28, 2014 Author Posted August 28, 2014 Thanks for the support guys. I will remain NC. I have spoken to a therapist and it seems I suffer from emotional dependency and some abandonment issues. Time to go work on myself. 1
Author nightowl1 Posted September 2, 2014 Author Posted September 2, 2014 Just to give an update. I ended up telling her the other day, after all her apologizing that I can't get back with her anytime soon. What she did to me was just inexcusable. She then continued to email until finally I said ok, I'll be just friends. I saw her one night, realized I can't be just friends and sent her an email explaining that I can't be anything and that I just need space. I said maybe sometime in the future our paths will cross again but I highly doubt that. Haven't spoken to her since I sent the email. Been progressing well and I can finally see the light at the end of the tunnel.
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