LivinGroove Posted July 28, 2014 Posted July 28, 2014 (edited) Hello everyone. This is gonna be pretty long. If you're getting bored you can skip to the penultimate paragraph. So, there's a girl where I live whose mom is my mom's friend and I haven't known her for too long, I met her last year and we don't usually talk to each other. However, she asked me out a couple of times with another girl. I think I wasn't really attracted to her the first time I saw her (maybe a bit) but her character made it clear to me that she wasn't interested in me last year. Well, one day mom told me to go to her house bcus she was waiting for me to give me some medications (pills) for my uncle bcus he had some abdominal back pain. I went to her house, saw her there playing with a little girl and she fastly came towards me and gave me the pills and then returned back playing with the kid (the vibes she was giving me were like: "uuhh take this and leave me alone") then I said, are you ______ ? She said yes, then I said "nice to meet you" and we shook hands and fastly went back to her own business. I was left kind of confused. Why did she act like that? Am I so hideous? Now, this summer was kind of different. Two girls asked me out (one of them was this girl). She smiled happily when she saw me and walked very close to me (touching each other's arm), there was also another girl with us. Both walked close to me. When we arrived at some place with some other guys she mostly spoke to a guy (who I know from school) and laughed at his jokes mostly, I also laughed but I was kind of ignored by both girls. The one who had the biggest attention was that guy. Again, I was left confused. A couple of moments later they said they'd go home (I don't know why and I don't care), everyone was leaving the place and the 2 girls and me also. When we arrived at my home I kissed one of the girls on the cheek and the girl I like walked faster, I tried to approach her to give her a kiss also and the other girl said something like: "Why u so rude?!! Give him a kiss!", she turned and we kissed each other on the cheek. Today, strangely, she came to our house and I almost didn't even recognize her, it was probably because she didn't wear makeup. The spots were kind of obvious on her face but she was still cute. She came closer to me and asked me: "How you doin'?" and gave me a kiss on the cheek. Then she sat down in front of me. I was looking at some pictures on my laptop when she came. After she sat down there were some seconds of silence between both of us. I tried to avoid the awkwardness by saying something, I asked her about some random stuff we talked about when we hanged out (about entering a certain university). She talked softly and looked down when I asked her that. I didn't even understand exactly what she said, only that she "entered". Before the attempt of asking her about that she kind of started arranging a bag that was left close where she sat. To mention this, she came for some pills and after she received what she wanted (some pills for her mother) she left the place and told me: "Bye ____". And there it goes. What do you guys think? Does this girl like me as a friend or is there something else between us? I was getting kind of nervous when I saw her today and tried to hide that. Thanx. Edited July 28, 2014 by LivinGroove
Zippy2000 Posted July 28, 2014 Posted July 28, 2014 After huge post like that. I d give you the answer short and sweet. She sees you as a friend. Give your undivided attention to someone who deserves it.
Assasda Posted July 28, 2014 Posted July 28, 2014 I dont think you are anything right now. Do you have any history of telling this girl that she's beautiful or anything like that? I just think that you need to be more confident when seeing her, and just remember that she's as nervous as you are. Also you have no real ties to this girl, so see other women, dont invest so much time trying to figure this out
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