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The worst part is when the interest fades and you care still


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Whenever I get invested and begin to care it always goes downhill.

 

I notice a pattern every time I date where the girl is super interested and gradually has less and less time. The more I open up or the more time I give the , the more inevitable it seems she loses interest and/or enjoys seeing her options and flirting with others.

 

Has anyone else found a way to deal with this? I find that I wrongly choose the opposite and make no time for someone that isnt on my schedule and those tend to work out more successfully. Not bitter or that, just saddened by that saying that the person in power is the one who cares the least. I feel bummed on relationships at times like this.

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I hate the idea of pulling back on texting and calls but it seems effective yet those things feel like meditated fricking games. Sigh.

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You mean, The more you like a girl the more needy and clingy you get, and that drives the girls away?

yeah... work on that thien

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