coralsmith Posted July 27, 2014 Posted July 27, 2014 I went out with my friends on Friday night I was having an amazing time, when a guy comes over and starts chatting me up. We hit it off, etc. etc. At one point, I lose my friends. I'm tempted to go home, but I start dancing with him and end up having a really good time. I vaguely know some of his friends, so I stayed with his group. At one point when we were chatting, we discovered he knows my ex relatively well, as they used to play on the same sports team. I tell him my ex has moved on, we only were together for a short time etc. I may have been being paranoid, but I thought this might have put him off. We kiss, but it is fairly innocent - I don't even let his hands wander below my waist! When the night ends and we are about to leave, I tell him that I'm not interested in having a ONS. He looked a bit crestfallen! He invited me back to the room he was staying in, regardless. When I ask why, and reiterate nothing further will be happening, he said he would like to keep talking. Since i've had a fun night so far and quite like him, I agree. So we get a taxi back to his and chat before falling asleep - He didn't try it on, not at all - we didn't even kiss, so I don't think he'd only brought me back in the hopes I'd changed my mind. The next morning his friends knock on the door and demand he come with them for breakfast. We wait until they leave (to save me embarrassment), and he stays with me while we wait for a taxi. It takes a while to arrive and we chat - he seems nice and he is funny, interesting etc. He ells me his plans for the weekend. When the taxi arrives, he gets a bit embarrassed and asks for my number. I'm relieved because I thought he wasn't going to. I don't tend to ask for a guys number because I always thought if he was interested, he'd definitely be asking. However he does mention he'd be busy - he is starting a new job this coming week. It's now Sunday evening and I haven't heard from him. Part of me thinks he has had a busy weekend from what he told me, plus won't be free in the near future for a date. Another part of me thinks if he was interested, he'd have texted me at least ASAP. I'm disappointed because I would've liked to have seen him again. Should I just write this one off? Why'd he ask for my number if he wasn't interested? I don't think I really understand men at all and I'm fairly new to dating, so advice and insight would be much appreciated!
Author coralsmith Posted July 27, 2014 Author Posted July 27, 2014 Is that not quite a long time? Usually guys contact me a lot sooner than that. The guy I'd been seeing previously text me/added me on facebook the day after. My last ex waited less than 24 hours. I got chatted up on Saturday by a guy and gave him my number - he text me later that evening.
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