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over-valuing early, anxiety


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I have been talking to a girl for three weeks now. Our conversations went very well the first week, and she appeared very interested. We talked/texted pretty much everyday. On our first date, our chemistry was electric and we ended up having sex. We continued to talk/text pretty much everyday, nothing heavy, just light conversation throughout the day. Our second date went well, the sex was great, and now we are still talking/texting mostly every day.

 

My problem is that I'm starting to really fall for this girl in a short period of time, and I'm afraid I'm over-valuing what we already have. We are also about 80-90 minutes apart distance wise, which is kind of inconvenient. Is there anything I can do to put the breaks on my anxiety? I'm starting to worry I'll appear too serious to her, and I'm not interested in having an "us" talk this early.

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No one can predict where a relationship will go, even if it's starts off with sparks. Just go with the flow, and let things progress naturally. Maybe spend less time in the bedroom, and more time going out and spending quality time together.

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