geebz Posted February 23, 2005 Posted February 23, 2005 ok... A brief background. There is this girl in one of my classes who I began to notice in the beginning of the semester. My first real encounter with her other than me cracking jokes on her was working on a lab with her. She came over and asked if it were ok to work with me, i said ya. So, the first time she was a bit shy but I noticed she began to warm up. Every time I ran into her, I like her more and more. I don't want to look into this too deep. I'm not 100% that she totally digs me or if she even has a boyfriend (it's kinda hard to get that outta someone when you're studying rocks). Well we have a midterm coming up next week and we are going to have a study session this week. She gave me her # but I'm just thinking it's solely for class, so I don't want to abuse it. I usually stay away from girls in my classes because you never know what can happen and they will be in that class until the end of the semester. So, what I really want to know is how to take it to the next level. I really like this girl but it seems like everything is "school based". Any suggestions?
glitter-gal Posted February 23, 2005 Posted February 23, 2005 [color=indigo]Step 1: I would just begin to ask her questions about her life outside of school... Very slowly ask her a few questions here and a few more there soon you'll have the info you need as far as her having a bf or not. Step 2: As far as the taking from the classroom to another level... ask her out for a movie or dinner. !!Caution!! Refrain from step 2 if she has a boyfriend or in some other way seems disinterested in you. Step back, relax, and take it as it comes...[/color]
Author geebz Posted February 23, 2005 Author Posted February 23, 2005 Originally posted by ~glitter*gal~ [color=indigo]Step 1: I would just begin to ask her questions about her life outside of school... Very slowly ask her a few questions here and a few more there soon you'll have the info you need as far as her having a bf or not. Step 2: As far as the taking from the classroom to another level... ask her out for a movie or dinner. !!Caution!! Refrain from step 2 if she has a boyfriend or in some other way seems disinterested in you. Step back, relax, and take it as it comes...[/color] hey glittergal thanks for the reply. I have been doing step 1 but not excessively. We don't get to talk too much during class, the only time is the short walk from class to our destinations. I'll probably get more info when we study together. I had this in mind, but I thought there was some kind of "unknown" method to this. It's simple, I'll just hope for the best.
glitter-gal Posted February 23, 2005 Posted February 23, 2005 [color=indigo]No sweat! I had this in mind, but I thought there was some kind of "unknown" method to this. Women aren't really as complicated as you may think... the complicated ones like drama & drama is overrated IMO. Common sense should get you through most any situation unless of course your woman is not logical...[/color]
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