Priv Posted July 29, 2014 Posted July 29, 2014 Whether or not it was cheating is kinda beside the point. I don't know of any relationship handbook that clearly states what is and what isn't allowed or what it should be called and what people should be feeling in any given situation. What I do read is that something went terribly wrong 2 years ago. You are saying you are committed now, which kind of indicates you were not committed before. Maybe due to the old friend? Neither was he since he broke it off because of a fight I gather. You slept with your friend shortly after, which bothers him, but still takes you back. In all this mess you 2 got a baby within a month or 2 I think (2-1-9 months give or take). Honestly, I don't understand why he took you back given that he lost feelings, but still managing to get you pregnant. Neither do I understand why you took him back and get pregnant. But you 2 need to either break it off, or go to counselling. Two years is a waaaay too long a time to be dealing with this. It just isn't going to solve itself anymore. 1
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