Griesfootball Posted July 25, 2014 Posted July 25, 2014 So yesterday I found out that my ex who I wasn't over has a new boyfriend. I was not upset, I've been over the crying stage for a while it was more anger because instead of ever talking things out in our 3 months after our breakup she has just jumped ship to this new guy. I thought I did good as a boyfriend to this girl who I dated for 13 months. I don't think this girl is capable of being in something long term so I don't see her new relationship lasting. The other thing that helped was that since she's dating I have no reason to talk to her which is helping me go through no easier. So what did you think, feel, or maybe you didn't care at all about when your ex had a new significant other?
FortunateSon Posted July 25, 2014 Posted July 25, 2014 It can be a tough pill to swallow especially when you still have attachment/feelings for her or are hoping to reconcile. As you said, it now gives you no reason to speak to her. This is where being total NC and blocking all social media becomes essential...you don't want to know or to see updates on what she is now doing with the new person in her life, it will only delay your healing. Take it as the final nail in the relationship's coffin and move forward. 1
Author Griesfootball Posted July 25, 2014 Author Posted July 25, 2014 Yup that's all I can do. I want to move completely forward too meaning if it doesn't work out for her and she comes back I don't want to be involved in any baggage like that.
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