emanf16 Posted July 25, 2014 Posted July 25, 2014 (edited) So my girlfriend and I (each age 17) have been dating officially for about a month, our one month is actually next saturday, but we have been together longer its just our "offical" date. This week was her family's vacation down at their lake house and I was invited to spend the day monday and attend their party tuesday evening. Everything was a lot of fun she seemed to enjoy having me there and I really enjoy being there. Their family is a bit different in that they really don't see high school dating as casual just two kids spending time together, they believe dating of any form should be dating for marriage and they made that very clear up front. Honestly it was a bit of a breath of fresh air to see someone looking for something a bit more mature and serious than what I'm used to finding in high school girls. So anyway tuesday evening was interesting because i couldn't leave till about 11pm because someone from the party grabbed my keys by accident and we had to stay up and wait for them. She seemed a little crabby because of exhaustion and sunburn but i think i managed to give her space enough and just let her do her thing. We didn't talk wednesday but thursday i talked to her to try and set something up for next saturday so we could make it at least a little special and everything seemed fine she seemed happy and willing to do that and i was just reassured that tuesday evening wasn't gonna escalade she just needed rest. This morning i told her i had some more questions to throw her way just some small things just take it one step at a time with this thing, but i made sure to tell her i didnt want to get in the way of her vacation so whenver she had some down time just get back to me. I thought that was the respectful thing to do but two minutes after she reads the message she puts on twitter "I love vacations because they really make me think about what i want in life and who should be in my life" I have no idea what to make of this! I know that with some things i can overreact but its been eating at me all day and i would love to know anyone's thoughts on what this could possibly mean. Edited July 25, 2014 by emanf16
Author emanf16 Posted July 25, 2014 Author Posted July 25, 2014 Just an add on for some additional info... She consistantly seems really interested in a long term relationship. She says things like I really want to see what God has in store for us (She is pretty Christian if that wasnt clear already) and i mentioned i dont want to do anything to scare her off and she responded with trust nothing you could do could scare me off if that makes any difference with your opinion
d0nnivain Posted July 25, 2014 Posted July 25, 2014 There's no way to tell what that statement means other than to ask her. Both options are equally plausible: she has thought about you & likes you or she has thought about you & doesn't see you making it to your 1 month anniversary. Sorry. You have to talk to her when she gets home.
Author emanf16 Posted July 25, 2014 Author Posted July 25, 2014 Yeah but how would i go about asking that kind of a question because right now "Hey i say this tweet what exactly did you mean by that" seems kind of akward and out of place
d0nnivain Posted July 25, 2014 Posted July 25, 2014 That's exactly how I'd ask it. I don't see where it's awkward at all, other than there is potential for the answer to be the one you don't want to hear.
CarrieT Posted July 25, 2014 Posted July 25, 2014 I wouldn't ask. You've only been seeing her a month. You have OOOOODLES of time and everything will okay itself out without you over-analyzing every comment and gesture. Trust me, at this age you - and she - should be *years* away from even considering marriage or a life-long commitment. Just enjoy the time and get to know each other. You don't need to psychoanalize every sentence.
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