writteninreverse Posted July 25, 2014 Posted July 25, 2014 Hey all, So, I had a really nice first date a few nights ago with lots of laughter, conversation, agreement about important life things etc etc. The next day I texted her saying that I want to take things slow and get to know her better before getting physical. She said that's fine and that she would like to go out again. So, how should I approach this second date? I want it to be less casual then the first because I don't want to be friendzoned, but I'm not sure how to make it this way without making a physical move.
Elle1975 Posted July 25, 2014 Posted July 25, 2014 Landing a kiss doesn't mean you have to try and sleep with her. Do exactly what you told her, spend some time doing fun activities, and get to know her. 1
Assasda Posted July 25, 2014 Posted July 25, 2014 Sounds like you dont know what youre doing at all. I hope you didnt just come out of the blue and tell her that you like to take it slow. Anyway, casual is the best. You obviously dont know what the friendzone is. If you can be a man and still be casual, you wont have any friendzone problems, so get all the thoughts of seriousness out of your head
d0nnivain Posted July 25, 2014 Posted July 25, 2014 Do whatever casual activity you have planned but include at least hand-holding during the date. Whether you kiss hello & goodbye is up to you. I would because they are clearly not friend activities but you don't have to have long make out sessions or head to a bedroom for a while . . . weeks, months, before you marry (whatever slow means to you)
Fitguyinfl Posted July 25, 2014 Posted July 25, 2014 You can take things slow without telling someone you want to take things slow. 1
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