peanuutdegruut Posted July 25, 2014 Posted July 25, 2014 Hello I wonder if anyone can give me some advice. My friend and his gf set me up with a girl and we went on a double date and had a great time. The girl told them she hasn't had that much fun in ages and that she fancied me. We kissed and chatted and got on really well. We arranged to meet up again and went for a walk and a drink and again got on really well and laughing. She has just got out of a long term realationship in which she was cheated on and she admitted it knocked her back. When texting and talking she would say things like we should do this one day and talking about plans ahead of where we were as if she wanted to see me a lot more. Then after one date she dropped me home and was a bit off . I didn't hear from her until the following afternoon and she said that she's just not ready to commit to anything as she's not long been single and needs to find herself but would love to stay in contact as she enjoys my company a lot and Mabye in the future see what happens I replied that I totally understand although a little gutted as would have been nice to see what happened between us. Then she asked to have a movie night with me or go out somewhere and making plans. I don't know what to do, I would like her as a friend but I want to be with her, do I play along with the friend bit and see what happens? As I don't think she's playing me at all I generally think her last relationship hurt her. Or do I cut all ties and see what happens that way? I do really like her and as a group we are going out for a day in a month or so. Any advice would be appreciated thankyou !!
d0nnivain Posted July 25, 2014 Posted July 25, 2014 Be friendly in the group but don't pursue her. Let it be known that if & when she changes her mind, if you are still single you would be open to her initiating contact but you can't do much else. Sounds like she might not be over her last EX & being on a date with you made that point more clearly to her.
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