inez12 Posted February 23, 2005 Posted February 23, 2005 question for men.. Do you ever go out on a date with a girl.. and not call her (cause your waiting to see if she calls you) or does no call=no like just curious
westernxer Posted February 23, 2005 Posted February 23, 2005 Yes, sad to say. No call = no like. It's better this way, since you hardly know each other and haven't made any sort of commitment. Better than calling for no reason and getting her hopes up. Usually I wait a couple of days to see if I still feel something. If so, I call. It's still a risk at this point, because she, in turn, may not like me. I'm not ashamed to admit that it's happened before. It happens to most guys.
hugznkisses21 Posted February 23, 2005 Posted February 23, 2005 well when i went on a date with my bf he said "i do not call after the first date" it was his way of saying I dont like rejection so just to let u know if u like me call me cause i like you but i dont want to call and get shot down. LOL what a chicken!
MassiveAtom Posted February 23, 2005 Posted February 23, 2005 Sometimes. no call = no like. It's very important that you pay attention to what happened on the date. Generally speaking you probably intuitively know how much he likes you. If he doesn't call for 2 days, cut him some slack - he could be busy. 5 days, okay, worry a little about it but hopefully the stud's got lots of things in his life that he finds important.. 10 days, forget about it.
EC Posted February 23, 2005 Posted February 23, 2005 Well you never know. My brother went out on a date and had the number on a sheet of paper in his shorts. He washed them and forgot and hadn't called her after the date for a couple days. LOL untill she finally called him. Not every case is like that but you never know. lol
iceisles Posted February 23, 2005 Posted February 23, 2005 I once had a girl call the next day to say she had a great time but that I wasn't right for her. I was really impressed by that.
Pocky Posted February 23, 2005 Posted February 23, 2005 One time I went on a date and seven days passed before I heard from him. He never actually called - he lost my number, but he remembered where I lived and drove there and left his telephone number for me to call. I dated him for five years. Sometimes things happen. I generally give the benefit of the doubt. I'd call after a week and leave my number again. After that, if I didn't hear from him, I'd assume he wasn't interested.
hugznkisses21 Posted February 23, 2005 Posted February 23, 2005 Just call.....i would u have nothing to loose. Maybe he is saying the same thing...should i should i cause maybe he is afraid of being rejected...JUST CALL
Sckott Posted February 23, 2005 Posted February 23, 2005 If two people are interested, they should be calling each other. If one is not, then either he/she isn't into you, or not very social/doesn't like to use the phone. That just bites. I too can't stand those who don't call back. It's a deal breaker for me. If you're interested, heck, return a phone call! Ladies do it too for the same reason men might avoid the call....
moo Posted February 24, 2005 Posted February 24, 2005 I think "he's just not that into you" really shook up alot of us girls. I'd say it's a pretty good thing to follow - the advice in the book - because most guys that are into you but are afraid of commitment, or are rebounding badly and adamant that they won't do it again, or simply are players, usually turn out to be lousy relationships anyway ... even if they are long. I have won a couple of guys through sheer persistance (lol) even when they haven't called back after each time I have spent with them. It turns out a lot of guys take a while to realise they like you, but BE WARNED the relationships were terrible, the guys were selfish and nasty and i regretted it every time!! I'd just follow the book.
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