STM206 Posted July 24, 2014 Posted July 24, 2014 I often question if I'll ever be able to really love, trust and be with another person again. I'll sit and think to myself, imagine being with someone else and all I can think is "you'll proably end up leaving as well". I guess life is full of uncertainty and lots of taking chances, I just wonder if my heart will ever feel open enough that I won't wake up every morning wondering if this is "the day it ends once again". Ps; it's been near 7 months since the breakup, so maybe time will heal everything like they say. I partially feel ready to date again, just to get back out there but I also know I'll be looking for red flags constantly which can hinder any type of progression with someone that I might potentially like. Any advice?
Author STM206 Posted July 24, 2014 Author Posted July 24, 2014 Also, little back story for anyone who might not remember me. Together with a guy for 4 years, he pretty much blindsides me with the breakup, moves out in the span of an hour and not even 2 months later is living across the country with his ex. No fights, no blow ups... Just left.
Omei Posted July 24, 2014 Posted July 24, 2014 I often question if I'll ever be able to really love, trust and be with another person again. I'll sit and think to myself, imagine being with someone else and all I can think is "you'll proably end up leaving as well". I guess life is full of uncertainty and lots of taking chances, I just wonder if my heart will ever feel open enough that I won't wake up every morning wondering if this is "the day it ends once again". Ps; it's been near 7 months since the breakup, so maybe time will heal everything like they say. I partially feel ready to date again, just to get back out there but I also know I'll be looking for red flags constantly which can hinder any type of progression with someone that I might potentially like. Any advice? Im well over a year since my breakup I feel the very same as you I also think when will be the day they leave me and everything seems to be a red flag like too many at once, I dont ex compare anymore so im ready to date too. The only thing I can guess is its just going to happen naturally one day just like the rest did and I had different fears back then about relationships that I dont now, hope that helps if not just a bit.
erklat Posted July 24, 2014 Posted July 24, 2014 Yeah. I try now not to appear bothered at all by what she does and not to express my fondness too much. But you shouldn't feel bad. It is the way the world works. You get hurt. You are more experienced. It does not mean that you are bad partner to your next so because if that.
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