coralsmith Posted July 24, 2014 Posted July 24, 2014 (edited) Ok so a bit of background info; My ex broke up with my suddenly. I'm pretty much over him to be honest, I don't miss him. If anything, I was disappointed in who he turned out to be. But the way he went about it - breaking up with me out of nowhere - completely shook me. It's the fact someone who told me I meant so much to them, could ditch me so suddenly and without warning. We stayed in contact for a bit afterwards, texting occasionally. He came round once and we did kiss/did stuff, though not sex. I knew he'd slept with someone else, asked him about it a few times etc. Recently he has now confirmed to me he was "seeing" a girl (AKA sleeping with her intermittently), the whole time he'd been texting me. Kinda my fault for staying in contact with him. But I still trusted him to be honest with me at this point. So I was pretty devastated. Since then I have removed him from social media, barring facebook. I have unfollowed him and turned off chat for him on facebook. I never check his profile. Fairly soon after he broke up with me, I had sex with someone else. And to be perfectly honest, it really helped. It was the one thing that helped me come to terms that it was over between me and my ex. So I went out last weekend and had my first ONS. It was actually pretty fun, he was nice enough to talk to etc. He didn't ask me for my number/add me on facebook, so I know he's not interested in it going further and neither am I (relationship/dating wise). But a part of me thinks a rebound fling will help me get over my ex, will help ease the "sting" and will be fun - I have a pretty high sex drive, but not ready for a new relationship right now. I could add him on Facebook to initiate things, but I have no idea how to turn this into a FWB situation without being too blunt? Never done this before! Can anyone offer advice? Edited July 24, 2014 by coralsmith
d0nnivain Posted July 24, 2014 Posted July 24, 2014 Once you find him, invite him over. Kiss him hello & let hormones take over from there. No discussion needed.
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