BaselineLeaner Posted July 24, 2014 Posted July 24, 2014 So I was at a restaurant the other day and saw my ex(we dated 4 years) for the first time since our breakup. She broke up with me an I have gone no contact since. Haven't talked or seen here since then. Although I'm over the situation, it was a little rough seeing her for the first time. We made eye contact but no words or gestures. Just trying to stay strong and move on in life as she threw me out!
hoping2heal Posted July 24, 2014 Posted July 24, 2014 You're doing a good job BL Can't be easy going NC after 4 years but you're doing it. You even saw her and you know what? You're still standing. You're going to be okay:bunny::bunny: 1
irresolute Posted July 24, 2014 Posted July 24, 2014 I hope I'll never see him again because I know all the feelings will come at once. Just try to be strong and fo not go to any events she may be attending until you feel only indifference
JustSomeGuyHere Posted July 24, 2014 Posted July 24, 2014 So I was at a restaurant the other day and saw my ex(we dated 4 years) for the first time since our breakup. She broke up with me an I have gone no contact since. Haven't talked or seen here since then. Although I'm over the situation, it was a little rough seeing her for the first time. We made eye contact but no words or gestures. Just trying to stay strong and move on in life as she threw me out! Hey BL-I imagine that must have been hard. It sounds like you're doing everything right and handling it well. Keep your head up.
Author BaselineLeaner Posted July 25, 2014 Author Posted July 25, 2014 Must've been rough man. How do you feel? It was definitely rough, but the next day I felt nothing except just anger that she gave up on us. That is what keeps me moving on knowing she threw a boyfriend out that was good to her and faithful!
edgygirl Posted July 26, 2014 Posted July 26, 2014 My former ex, broke up beginning of 2009, I don't care about him anymore. But I do catch myself looking around when the train stops in his supposed subway station. I try to see if he's around or entering the train. It's so weird. I look much better than I did when I was with him, I'm 116 pounds now, almost half what I used to be, for some reason I wish he saw me live
scobro Posted July 26, 2014 Posted July 26, 2014 I cringe everytime I see a white Audi or any car that looks like my ex's.I can't imagine how I would feel seeing her its been 4 months for me as well....uggh feel for you pal!!
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