lynnered Posted March 8, 2005 Posted March 8, 2005 DoggyDog you made my eyes water!!! that is so sad makes me think of some things i need to re-think!!
Author CaughtUp Posted March 9, 2005 Author Posted March 9, 2005 I appreciate you sharing this with me. I'm so sorry that you're having to go through this, this isn't something I would wish upon my worst enemy. I understand what you are saying and I'm not so much waiting for him as I'm in a temporary holding pattern until he can tell me what the deal is and he just happens to be far away so communication is slow. Unfortunately, I don't know how I'm going to shake him even if he "releases" me. (boy I can just see the responses coming from that one). I don't know if you read the whole thread or not but I'm doing all I can that makes sense to me today...tomorrow maybe I'll feel different. If you feel you can deal with it now please read the thread and you can kinda see where my situation is different. ( I know that that sounds just like everyone else but....there ya go ) Back to you. I hope that you realize that you are not someone who is left but someone who is wiser and that makes you even more attractive and stronger. The path that you choose prepared you for something just be patient until that becomes clear to you. I can see the pain in your words and I offer all the comfort that I can possible send to you. I often think about the wives to these cheating husbands who have no clue that they are being cheated on. Are they in any better position than we are? They believe that they are living the perfect life.... it just is so complicated. How about the wives who know but stick with their husbands, but never truly trust again? I just believe it all happens for a reason we just have to muddle through till we find out what that reason is and it is going to be different for each and everyone involved. There is some secret to why we are attracted to whom we are attracted, or to why some couples stay and others split or why the OW gets the man sometimes or why it all just falls apart for everyone. I know I'm just rambling but its like something is forming in my mind so bear with me please.
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