sploshe Posted July 23, 2014 Posted July 23, 2014 Last week while out on a big night out a friend of mine told me that they witnessed my gf of 3 years kissing somebody on the street in our home town. Later that night when i came home i confronted her about this... it was denied/had no recollection of it... didnt believe her but went about life as was (but certainly the seed of doubt had been placed) Last week then i found a LOAD of fb messages in her e-mails from a person who as it turned out was the guy she apparently was spotted kissing... these e-mails made it quite clear that she had told him she was single (or was soon to be) and quite clearly they had a relationship of sorts for about 2 months... I confronted her about this.. admitted that she had been kissing the guy but nothing else ... obviously i didnt take this well nor did i believe her, and went on the piss for 3 days solid Now, we have a young baby ~ who i love very much and intend to stay in his life... My question is.... Should i consider maybe getting back with his mother? Even tho i dont think i could ever trust her again? But i dont want to have raise a child from a separated home
d0nnivain Posted July 23, 2014 Posted July 23, 2014 Only you know where reconciliation is the best choice. Since you also know she's a cheater & a liar, it doesn't sound like the best idea to me. Talk to a lawyer regarding your legal rights at a parent. Good luck. 1
carrie_o Posted July 23, 2014 Posted July 23, 2014 Don't get back together. This will probably happen again. Work on being the best co-parent you can be.
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