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I met a guy online who seems super nice. In about 2 weeks, we have emailed a few times, texted and spoke on the phone. When we first spoke, he told me that his father was terminally ill. A couple days later, he texted me and told me his father had passed. He told me what would go on regarding the services and asked me out for the following weekend. I texted my condolences and accepted.

I found his father's obituary online (gotta do your research). Is it creepy for me to sign the online guest book? Should I bring a card on the date? In lieu of flowers the family asked that a donation be made to a charity, should I do that after the date or now? I want do something to acknowledge his dad's passing but I don't know him well enough yet and don't want to come off like a stalker.

Any thoughts? Thanks in advance.

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Just sign the book

 

nothing more is needed

 

keep it simple and that is all

 

my advice

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I think signing the online guest book will be a lovely...and thoughtful...thing to do.

If anyone is going to make such a gesture out to be stalkerish or too familiar or whatever negative thing...then you really don't want to be dating him in the first place.

Anything more isn't necessary, given you haven't yet had your first date.

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Thanks guys! That's what I'll do.

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