FrostBlaze Posted July 23, 2014 Posted July 23, 2014 So i went to visit this gal i had been talking to, was our second meetup like this, and it went far worse than the first. We went out, 2 hours in she wanted to go back home because of heat/bored..she lays on the bed and invites me next to her. I had 2 shirts on so i removed one because of the heat, i noticed her spooked expression on the face, like. "is he gonna do me right now" :| not my intention. After that she got upset on me the whole day and would not talk or enjoy any of my jokes. She wouldn't even let me touch her, "get yer paws off" or " you're annoying me" ^^. So i stopped trying. This went on the whole day she ignoring me and talking to others on phone, flirting EVEN, a lot. Some of her buds came by later at night (a couple) so we talked stuff, she got slightly horny and let me touch her for the whole time that day...and rub her feet. Then when night time came, she kinda freaked out, shrugged and got herself real small (idk how to explain it xD) i guess she freaked out or something. She went to sleep in her room and sent me off on the couch cuz she didn't want me, lal. Then in the morning she barely even uttered a good morning to me or bye when i left...didn't come to see me out. ...I feel so freaking hurt and unsure, does she even care? Was she scared or just being bitchy?/playa. I got no ideea.
d0nnivain Posted July 23, 2014 Posted July 23, 2014 The whole thing is odd. If she didn't want you to touch her on your second meeting why the heck did she invite you into her BED? You two could have easily stayed in the living room. She sounds like an immature little drama queen. She ignored you while you there until she had an audience & then she got all cuddly? No thanks. If I were you there wouldn't be a 3rd date.
RonaldS Posted July 23, 2014 Posted July 23, 2014 Dude, just walk. This one is not going to be worth it.
Author FrostBlaze Posted July 23, 2014 Author Posted July 23, 2014 I allready walked away and said **** it this morning, that's why i left. I'm just wondering wtf was she doing. In the end i asked her, why did u even invite me over? Her response was "idk". Give me a yes or no answer woman, not idk ! she again said "idk". >_> I said the same thing Don, why did u invite me in bed and act like that? U we're giving me signals to touch you...yet you denied it all. Moody >_>, i think she may have been on her period or some ****.
KaliLove Posted July 23, 2014 Posted July 23, 2014 Ok, first of all, never say that again. Having our period does not make us crazy. Second..my first thought is that she's inexperienced and was nervous. Is it possible that she's a virgin?
RonaldS Posted July 23, 2014 Posted July 23, 2014 Ok, first of all, never say that again. Having our period does not make us crazy. Generalization. My XW was honey badger when she was PMSing. She was baaaaaad...real bad. Thoughtlessly mean and didn't care how much she hurt people.
Author FrostBlaze Posted July 23, 2014 Author Posted July 23, 2014 Ok, first of all, never say that again. Having our period does not make us crazy. Second..my first thought is that she's inexperienced and was nervous. Is it possible that she's a virgin? Yes she is, but that's no reason to be moody and ignore me all day, except for when her friends got there. And she was on the phone all day. And when i first met her, first date..we did all sort of nasties, this time she wouldn't even let me touch her idk what was up.
KaliLove Posted July 23, 2014 Posted July 23, 2014 No, that's definitely no reason to be moody and ignore you at all. You're doing the right thing by letting this one go. I was just thinking that that's why she was acting strangely around you. It was nerves..not you.
d0nnivain Posted July 23, 2014 Posted July 23, 2014 Menstruation is not a mental illness. If anything women react hostility when narrow minded men accuse us of being unstable because it's that time of the month. It's insulting. Anyway, if she's a virgin & you two are relatively young she might not know why she did what she did -- invite you in then act weird. It's probably more of she likes the idea of a BF which is why she was affectionate in front of her friends but standoffish when you were alone & there was a possibility something could happen. The glamour & romance have a theoretical appeal but she's not ready to deal with the real thing. Unless you enjoy getting jerked around while she grows up, walk now.
Author FrostBlaze Posted July 23, 2014 Author Posted July 23, 2014 Menstruation is not a mental illness. If anything women react hostility when narrow minded men accuse us of being unstable because it's that time of the month. It's insulting. Anyway, if she's a virgin & you two are relatively young she might not know why she did what she did -- invite you in then act weird. It's probably more of she likes the idea of a BF which is why she was affectionate in front of her friends but standoffish when you were alone & there was a possibility something could happen. The glamour & romance have a theoretical appeal but she's not ready to deal with the real thing. Unless you enjoy getting jerked around while she grows up, walk now. This had crossed my mind. Anyway as a last bit of info. She would touch me, but back off or say don't when i did so. Or she would literally FREEZE when i tried to hug her a few times...tell me to stop, but she was just frozen there. Sure i could of pushed, maybe she was just being shy, but when a girl says don't the way she did...i take it literally, rather not risk it. Oh and i didn't mean to offend, but she is very mean/angry when on her period. OR extremely horny, it's just one of these two.
d0nnivain Posted July 23, 2014 Posted July 23, 2014 You're a good guy. Women like her who give mixed signals put themselves in vulnerable positions. No means no. But there are giggly idiots who mumble no but who really mean "talk me into it" which is absurd & causes tremendous problems.
Author FrostBlaze Posted July 23, 2014 Author Posted July 23, 2014 You're a good guy. Women like her who give mixed signals put themselves in vulnerable positions. No means no. But there are giggly idiots who mumble no but who really mean "talk me into it" which is absurd & causes tremendous problems. Aye, i don't play that game, i mean i can tell (i think) when she is just playing, but this one didn't seem like it. IF she was just playing hard to get and wanted me to push harder...since she stood there and didn't move when i tried, well then...i failed that one ^^. But i doubt it.
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