westernxer Posted June 14, 2005 Posted June 14, 2005 He doesn't sound very decisive... probably still pining for his ex.
HoneyWheat Posted June 14, 2005 Posted June 14, 2005 Originally posted by clynn uh, actually when we dated, he would phone me, set dates, ask me out, take me out, all that stuff. Then we split up. how many dates? 2? sorry if i seem a bit hostile..I hate men who play this mamby pamby game
Author clynn Posted June 14, 2005 Author Posted June 14, 2005 and I don't know you honeywheat but I'm starting to wonder if you don't just hate men?
HoneyWheat Posted June 14, 2005 Posted June 14, 2005 Originally posted by clynn we dated for a few months. ok from the way you put things it sounded like you only went out a couple of times and btw i noticed yoru remarks on simiar threads...you make it sound like they are all the same guy but whatever no i don't hate men like i said i hate a particular kind of behavior in certain men...you might want to go back and reread...I was just ALARMED when i started going back and researching and finding this had been going on since Jan...had no clue till this morning they were all actually three different men. in my mind, if an adult male is stalling for months (since Jan.) yet is in the vicinity one would tend to think that he is either JUST NOT INTERESTED IN YOU or he's a stalker...jan is when you started posting one would think the guy made a move by now...if there is unusual delay the guy is either JUST NOT INTERESTED in you or he's a stalker that's all there is to it you did say you were angry about something....
HoneyWheat Posted June 14, 2005 Posted June 14, 2005 ps: i don't count seeing you or running into you at the club or at social events 'dates' but you might.... most people don't define that as a date
Author clynn Posted June 14, 2005 Author Posted June 14, 2005 i don't define that as a date. no. No with this particular fellow we dated over the late fall / winter and broke up in january. There were several months that passed where I didn't see him or had not contact with him at all after we split up. Until quite recently. that's all.
Author clynn Posted June 27, 2005 Author Posted June 27, 2005 well, update: He's been phoning, I had an competition recently so he phoned to wish me well, and followed up after. he's been working out of town but we've had some good telephone conversations. I'm trying to get a pulse on where he is at while at the same time trying to figure out my own stuff myself....... This weekend he was back in town, he phoned me up friday night (i was out until late). Then Saturday we talked and left it kinda loose about maybe getting together later, going to a party together or something. I left him a message at home, but he was out. So he phoned me back later and left a message saying I should have phoned him on his cell phone......... he was heading out to a party of mutual friends at that point but by then I'd already moved onto going out to a different party......so we didn't connect. I got the message when I got home (late) and I was out adn busy all day sunday. But I left him a message later on that night when I got it. I feel like,....hmmm....a case of just missing each other? or conveniently missing each other....or? Aaaaaah.....I guess we'll see.
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