She told me she and her husband were swingers after having sex

[Trane]

Years ago I fooled around with a girl at a party for musicians, artists and amateur actors. Never saw a ring on her finger the whole night and I knew she was in hot pursuit of me. Always at the bar when I was and a couple of times she sat at my table I guess feeling very comfortable knowing a few of the people I was sitting with.

 

We both had a good amount of drinks but I was still cognizant of my surroundings. We go back to her friends place, down a couple more drinks and have sex. Next morning she tells me her husband knew that she was going after me with the intent of having sex. She assured me of their swinging lifestyle only to break up with him months later. At the time I felt guilty and still feel a bit responsible. Many years later I see her at another party with her new man and she jokingly tells me to stay away. Doesn't want to lose another man because of me. I laughed it off as well but it still makes me ask if I really was to blame.

[OWAmy]

Of course you were not to blame. You went by what she told you at the time, whether it was true or not.

 

The second time you meet her she merely states this to make you go away. Did you go away? Job done.

 

May your conscience rest in peace 8-)

Edited July 23, 2014 by OWAmy
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[The Way I Am]

Why are you asking? Because you feel guilty and hope you weren't the reason or because you're into her and hope you were? I can't tell.