Alexander321 Posted July 22, 2014 Posted July 22, 2014 Hey guys Me and her broke up 10 months ago. and I am in strict No Contact for 8 months now.. My ex wished me Happy birthday today. I deleted her number 8 months ago. but I know this is her because I know the last digit of her number. She also greeted my brother 2 weeks ago on my brother's wedding. I am actually fine with the break up now and Happy focusing on my financial goals.. Is it best to just ignore her? Wonder why she is doing this things. From what I remember she hates my brother when we were together and she greeted him for some reason. I know I should not be wondering and should not care anymore.. It's just weird for me.
loversquarrel Posted July 22, 2014 Posted July 22, 2014 If you're happy where you are in your life ignore her, she's most likely prodding for a response. 2
Author Alexander321 Posted July 22, 2014 Author Posted July 22, 2014 that doesn't make me look like a butt hurt or immature? we are both in late 20's.
Author Alexander321 Posted July 22, 2014 Author Posted July 22, 2014 your right. Thanks Ignore it. Who cares what she thinks.
shoegal4 Posted July 23, 2014 Posted July 23, 2014 Alexander - if I were you, inhale that good ego boost of her reaching out and only - ONLY - reach out if you feel like it. Most times, they are just putting bait out to see if you'll bite. It sucks, I know.
jphcbpa Posted July 23, 2014 Posted July 23, 2014 depends on the BU imo. you could always just reply with a simple "thanks" in a day or so
loversquarrel Posted July 23, 2014 Posted July 23, 2014 It doesn't make you look immature, it just shows her you have moved on and if you feel like responding you will when you want to.
Ordinaryday Posted July 24, 2014 Posted July 24, 2014 it is a breadcrumb, she probably feels guilty about hurting you and even though she doesn't want you back she wants a brief message from you letting her know you are okay and, more importantly for her, not mad at her. needless to say ignore it.
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