Amy Lyn Posted February 22, 2005 Posted February 22, 2005 Has anyone ever had a booty call that's turned into a "real" relationship? And if so, were you friends first or did you start out as a booty call? Did the relationship last?
LittleMiss Posted February 22, 2005 Posted February 22, 2005 well none of my booty calls resulted in a real relationship, but one certainly resulted in me being a single mommy. so it's safe to say that I don't have any booty calls anymore.
glitter-gal Posted February 22, 2005 Posted February 22, 2005 My 2 cents: A booty call is a booty call. Nothing more nothing less. I personally wouldn't put any false hope into that type of situation. Of course I am not omnipotent so what do I know right?? Yes, I have called a guy over to get it on and then sent him on his way, a time or two, but I personally couldn't respect a guy enough after that to invest my emotions into a relationship with him. Also on the other hand I have been a booty call for someone but I wouldn't pursue a relationship with him because he probably doesn't respect you & that is a big flaw in most relationships anyway, why start one like that?
Kat Posted February 22, 2005 Posted February 22, 2005 No, he told me that he had left his girlfriend then a few weeks later chose her over me (for relationship), also turns out that I wasn't his only booty call. Luckily we knew the rules from the start or else it would have gotten messy!
EC Posted February 22, 2005 Posted February 22, 2005 Well mine started out kinda like a booty call...I met him and he was leaving in a month to start school 6 hours away. But we had a great time together and I knew we would just have fun and then he would leave and I figured if he was good in bed whenever he came down from school I could call him up or vice a versa and hook up. Well a month passed and he had to leave and well we fell in love and he asked me if I wanted to make it serious and work the distance out. Here I am a year later and we are perfect. You never know.
d'Arthez Posted February 23, 2005 Posted February 23, 2005 You might never know what develops from a booty call. Hopefully mutually good times. Depends on the situation, and on the persons involved, how much these are realized. But it is also possible to find yourself in a situation that because one has made booty calls or has been the booty call in the past, you can find yourself in a situation you don't like, and are powerless to change. Let me elaborate: ~glitter*gal~ wrote: Also on the other hand I have been a booty call for someone but I wouldn't pursue a relationship with him because he probably doesn't respect you & that is a big flaw in most relationships anyway, why start one like that? I quote this particular part of her story, as it underlines a potential double-edge. Another candidate boyfriend / girlfriend or man / woman might consider there is no prospect for a relationship with a person who has been involved with booty calls, because you have "obviously" not respected yourself enough in the past. The same is true for other purely sexual relationships. To explain the logic let's take a look at a case similar to ~glitter*gal~'s. Not only did he not respect her, by complying with his request for a booty call, she did also not respect herself. She willingly let herself be used, to gratify her sexual desires. I have seen people miss out on what they believed a great woman / man because of their past behavior .
glitter-gal Posted February 23, 2005 Posted February 23, 2005 I suppose I should clarify my postition here... I am not saying that you can't have a relationship with someone who has had or been a booty call for someone else in the past. I merely stated that it is highly improbable that the relationship would last if you began to have a relationship with one of your booty calls (or tried to start a relationship with someone for whom you were a booty call) because there would be respect issues. I do not proclaim to be omnipotent either so take my words with a grain of salt, (some tequila, and a lime) and please do not try to sue me if my advice leads you to utter dispair and failure in life... HA HA!
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