me85 Posted August 4, 2014 Posted August 4, 2014 Well, it has been thirty days since I had contacted her besides telling her I needed space. She contacted be because she says she had a bad dream that I was in an accident. Also, we work together and I hadn't been at work for a week so she was probably just concerned. I don think she realizes at all that I am still hurt by the breakup. It's been a long time since she has seen that side of me. Why did she really reach out? I will never know. And I recognize the fact that it doesn't even matter. I don't try to figure out the whys anymore. It still just hurts. Contact or not, my heart still hurts. And understandably so. I'm sorry. But think about it this way (as Forrest Gump once told himself) you made it this far...might as well keep on going! hehe I still hurt sometimes and it's been a year since my BU. This too shall pass. Heyyyyyy, seen any new movies lately??? lol
Author Mary Oak Posted August 4, 2014 Author Posted August 4, 2014 I also think it is more than a bad dream etc. She has used this line before. I don't know what it is. I think she may want to be friends, but I have told her that will never happen. It doesn't matter why. I just get so frustrated with it even being a prick on my heart. It shouldn't effect me at all. It is just a lousy email with no meaning behind it. I just need to respect myself more. I agree she doesn't need to know about my life. I know nothing of hers
Zahara Posted August 4, 2014 Posted August 4, 2014 I also think it is more than a bad dream etc. She has used this line before. I don't know what it is. I think she may want to be friends, but I have told her that will never happen. It doesn't matter why. I just get so frustrated with it even being a prick on my heart. It shouldn't effect me at all. It is just a lousy email with no meaning behind it. I just need to respect myself more. I agree she doesn't need to know about my life. I know nothing of hers Yes, because she knows you are hurt and that she hurt you and the sooner she can get you to be "nicey" with her, the easier it is for her to alleviate her feelings. When a person cares for you and sees you hurt, the kindest thing they can do for you is to leave you alone and respect your request, but the fact that she busts that boundary with crap excuses is evident that she only cares about what contact does for her versus what contact does to you. Do something different MO. 1
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