H245 Posted July 22, 2014 Posted July 22, 2014 Hey everyone. Figured to write a new thread to get everyone's opinion if I am doing better or not. You can read my most recent story here and on other threads I created. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/478557-another-try-another-breakup We broke up on May 15th and so it's been a little over 2 months since the BU. I had a lot of bad days up until a couple of weeks ago. I learned my ex was on 5-6 dating sites not even 2 weeks after we broke up. I've learned recently that she is now seeing someone. While it initially sucked to know this and I knew this was coming, I know I am better off after all the misery she put me through. I went on a couple of dates last week after trying my hand at online dating. She seems very nice and blows my ex out of the water in every aspect, but I haven't heard from her in a few days. Such is the dating scene I guess. I have been trying to focus more on me and working out, trying to find new activities, etc. Her number has been deleted from my phone, we are no longer friends on FB, I don't follow her on Twitter or Instagram. The only time I hear about her is through mutual friends posting on FB or Instagram or through conversation at group events. I guess my question is...am I doing better now? I feel some sadness when I think about her, but it doesn't last long and then I remind myself how terrible she treated me after I went out of my way and did so much for her. I know deep down that I'm a catch. Not sure why anyone can't see that. 1
SteakandSalad Posted July 22, 2014 Posted July 22, 2014 Of course you are doing better! Don't doubt yourself, you sound like you've got the hang of this :)
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