sonicthehedgehog Posted July 22, 2014 Posted July 22, 2014 About, well, 3 months ago now, I finally got to be alone with my crush at the end of a party, and I got so excited about finally having a chance to be all alone with her, that I just told her that I liked her. It was kind of awkward since I didn't said things the way I could have said them (I pretty much only said "hey there's something I've been keeping inside for a while, I like you") and I really regret not telling her all I wanted to tell her, and approach the subject properly. After I said it, she blushed, said no and then left. After that we ignored each other for a few days, but things have calmed down now.. (I would be worried if they haven't after 3 months ) Well... Thought you should know the story first. The thing is that now I want to try and be good friends again with her, since we haven't talked that much since then, and since vacations started, we haven't been able to see each other. I plan on inviting her to my house next week, but I'm not sure how to tell her that I know what I said back then was rushed, and I want to start again. Should I apologize? Tell her right away all I wanted to say? I'm not planning on giving up what I feel for her, I don't want to just bury down something like this and move on, if I can. All those looks and flirting we had confuse me now, I think we could work things out if I just tell her again. Please help Thanks.
Assasda Posted July 22, 2014 Posted July 22, 2014 Oh God this is bad. This is real bad. I winced so many times reading your post OP. Dont tell her anything again, also dont apologize. Not to be blunt, but, you already showed her you were irrational and cant control your emotions, and put pressure on her, ...what you want to show her now is that youre calm rational and fun to be around. What you do now, is you have fun with her, without verbally expressing your feelings, and hopefully you can get to do that after your "little mishap"
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