Hawk Posted February 22, 2005 Posted February 22, 2005 Ok Me and this girl have been talking for a while but she said that she just wanted to be friends. So the other day I went over to her house and we watched TV and chilled but I didnt sit close because she said that she just wanted to be friends. So when I leave I give her a hug and I look back at her before i go out the door and she asks if i want a kiss and im thinkin (HECK YEAH) but I really just turned around to say bye. so we kiss a lil and I go home. So the other day I was talking to her and I asked if she would get mad if I talked to other girls and she was like HELL YEA! but im thinkin to myself I thought she said we were just friends.So i dont know what the deal is, I need advice PLEASE.
Merin Posted February 22, 2005 Posted February 22, 2005 Uh.. I am a girl and what happend there confused me How about you ask her WHY it is she would be pissed off if you talk to or date other girls when it was your understanding she wanted to be Just Friends.
Author Hawk Posted February 22, 2005 Author Posted February 22, 2005 yeah sometimes i feel like she wants to pimp me or somethin. She did tell me that she does like me though. So maybe she just wants to be friends for a while because she's scared of getting hurt or something.
Sckott Posted February 22, 2005 Posted February 22, 2005 Doesn't want to get hurt or hurt someone (Stay away), doesn't want to be lonely or push people away (come back). Human yo-yo love trick. Both sexes are known to do it.
glitter-gal Posted February 22, 2005 Posted February 22, 2005 My 2 cents: Sha wants you on her terms but she doesn't want you running around with any other girls while she is out running around with whoever she wants to. I think that if she won't commit to ONLY you then you shouldn't have to commit to ONLY her... common sense to me.
monkey00 Posted February 22, 2005 Posted February 22, 2005 Originally posted by ~glitter*gal~ My 2 cents: Sha wants you on her terms but she doesn't want you running around with any other girls while she is out running around with whoever she wants to. I think that if she won't commit to ONLY you then you shouldn't have to commit to ONLY her... common sense to me. as she said. sounds like she's nto ready for a commited relationship, yet wants you to stick around and use you. if thats the case look for a gf elsewhere but here...
Author Hawk Posted February 22, 2005 Author Posted February 22, 2005 Yeah, i feel like she's tryin to pimp me or somethin and I'm not down for that. I'm gonna ask her about this tonight.
FoShizzleMyNizzle Posted February 22, 2005 Posted February 22, 2005 Originally posted by Hawk Yeah, i feel like she's tryin to pimp me or somethin and I'm not down for that. I'm gonna ask her about this tonight. You're stupid. Asking her about "this" tonight. And you say you're "not down for that." like you don't like being told what to do yet you are ASKING for validation from her about this. MOVE ON.
monkey00 Posted February 22, 2005 Posted February 22, 2005 as foshizzle said theres no point in validating it. It's obvious whats going on. But if you feel the need to get a direct answer - You Wont. Girls are artists at denying things and making excuses
Author Hawk Posted February 22, 2005 Author Posted February 22, 2005 OK, why cant i talk to HER about it, I would like to know whats really goin on from her mouth.
glitter-gal Posted February 22, 2005 Posted February 22, 2005 My 2 cents: You probably won't get a straight answer from her mouth because she will tell you almost anything to get her way. That is how girls are, sad but true. YOU need to tell HER how it is gonna be (in a nice, calm, respectable fashion of course). Tell her she commits to you only or not. Let her pick and then hold her to it. If she picks commitment, break up with her if she continues to run around. If she doesn't commit, then go start dating a few other girls too. You don't have to make out with all of them, just take one out to dinner and one to a movie or something like that.
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