therealSara Posted July 21, 2014 Posted July 21, 2014 I have been with my guy for 9 months now.. Before me, he had a serious relationship with a girl that ended up with him leaving her because she was talking to other guys and couldn't stay committed. We met and instantly became friends.. We decided to be friends with benefits and stick to just being sexual friends with no strings attached. But... He was the first one to admit to feeling something more than just "friends with benefits" feelings towards me, and wanted to become my boyfriend. I have fallen so in love with him, and told him a few times that I love him. He just kisses me or smiles at me. I have brought it up before, and he never says he DOESN'T feel the same, but also never says he does feel the same. I really do love that man.. He is so good to me and has been a loyal partner as well as become my best friend. I just don't know what to do, I can't tell if he is just scared to say it, or just doesn't feel the same way at all. I hate not knowing.
d0nnivain Posted July 21, 2014 Posted July 21, 2014 Then ask him. If he's the one who changed from FWB to BF, he may have developed feelings. After 9 months don't you think it's time to talk about this? 1
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