"I just felt so bad that I wasn't 100 percent ready for you"

[ppd12]

A girl I liked wrote this to me maybe a month ago.

Long story short, girl liked me, I liked her. She wasn't ready though because she was hurt from previous relationship that she had immediately gotten out of. We maintain contact and at times she thinks she is ready, but she isn't (even sent hearts to each other goodnight, etc.) She has admitted to liking me, says I'm really cute, etc. Summer starts, we maintain contact but are unable to meet up (we live in different outer boroughs and she was taking summer classes and working). She feels hesitant to be my girlfriend, but says she wants to hang out and get to know me better. I ask her if she want to hang out (go on a picnic) no response. She even ignored my snap chat a week later (I did make the mistake of viewing her snap chat updates, but i deleted my account). It is about 3 weeks later. Thoughts? Should I even bother contacting her and letting her know how I feel? Or should I forget about her and maybe give it a try in the fall with no expectations? Thanks a lot.

[ecw96]

Dude its obvious that she doesnt like u. Stop being so desperate, girls dont like that. U have to be a mixture of cocky and funny to get girls.

[WhatASituation]

I'd wait until Fall and see where you both are at. I always feel like if someone really wants to be with someone, they will make arrangements to do so. Silence speaks volumes to me, unfortunately.

[Assasda]

ECW96 hit the nail on the head.

You never make a mistake doing something that you logically intended to do, so why apologize for it.

2nd thing, youre never going to achieve anything by being a woman's therapist

[gaius]

You boosted her ego after a tough break up so in return she gave you some affection and pretended she just wasn't ready, instead of the truth. Which is you're not what she's looking for.

 

Contact her more if you want but the best you're going to get is more nonsense in thanks for making her feel good again.