UncertainBadger Posted July 21, 2014 Posted July 21, 2014 I feel drained, lost, and upset with myself. I dated this girl for 6 wonderful months, but due to a misunderstanding we choose to break up. We talked about it and she said she regretted the breakup, that I'm a wonderful guy, and she would love to try it again someday, for the right reasons. It's been 10 months, two close calls but nothing came to light. The last close call came in April this year, we got so far even admitted she liked me, but neither of us were ready and things died down. Over a week ago I told her I liked her again, but I didn't build much attraction, she said she's uncertain if she still see's me as a romantic interest. However, did say if she falls for me she would give it a shot, she said she would only give us a shot if she loves me as it's unfair on us for her to jump into a relationship with someone she doesn't love, but she isn't against it which I'm happy about. I gave ourselves some space as of late, It's now been two days since we last talked, but It's taken a toll on me. The girl I love, my ex, doesn't feel romantically attracted anymore .. I could regain that interest, but how. I could attempt to be like how I was when we had our last close call, depending if that's a success or not I don't know, uncertainty is eating away at me.
mammasita Posted July 21, 2014 Posted July 21, 2014 Move on to someone who KNOWS they want you. Stop wasting your life away on this woman who is uncertain. 3
central Posted July 21, 2014 Posted July 21, 2014 I think it's time to move on and forget her. She's mostly just saying semi-nice things hoping to make you feel better, but it seems that she's really not into you and it's very unlikely she ever will be. However, instead of helping, she's giving false hope. Move on - at least then you'll have options and perspective if what she's been saying ever does become reality, however unlikely that seems to me.
True Gent Posted July 21, 2014 Posted July 21, 2014 You're better off moving on from her. If a woman says she doesn't know it really means she's not interested and doesn't have the backbone to say so. Also I'd advise against remaining friends with a woman you're romantically interested in when she isn't feeling the same. The contact between you has just drawn out the whole process for you. 1
vassilbg Posted July 21, 2014 Posted July 21, 2014 I feel drained, lost, and upset with myself. I dated this girl for 6 wonderful months, but due to a misunderstanding we choose to break up. We talked about it and she said she regretted the breakup, that I'm a wonderful guy, and she would love to try it again someday, for the right reasons. It's been 10 months, two close calls but nothing came to light. The last close call came in April this year, we got so far even admitted she liked me, but neither of us were ready and things died down. Over a week ago I told her I liked her again, but I didn't build much attraction, she said she's uncertain if she still see's me as a romantic interest. However, did say if she falls for me she would give it a shot, she said she would only give us a shot if she loves me as it's unfair on us for her to jump into a relationship with someone she doesn't love, but she isn't against it which I'm happy about. I gave ourselves some space as of late, It's now been two days since we last talked, but It's taken a toll on me. The girl I love, my ex, doesn't feel romantically attracted anymore .. I could regain that interest, but how. I could attempt to be like how I was when we had our last close call, depending if that's a success or not I don't know, uncertainty is eating away at me. A woman will move mountains for a man she wants... cut cord and find someone who appreciates you for who you are. You ARE worth it my friend.
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