lueisredandwhite Posted July 21, 2014 Posted July 21, 2014 (edited) been taking to this girl, had a fw dates...have had a good time out of nowhere tonight she texted me saying "im not having sex till marriage, if this bothers you we need to end it now" i sai d"not an issue" then she said "im sorry i cant..i mean as un is i cant do you and i" i was shocked i texted back and said "im sorry? i dont understand where this is all coming from" havent heard back since does it sound like i did something..everything was fine till 30 mins ago she texte dback and said she just found out a guy she was with in the past was actually still in a relationship with another girl and she feels awful...and feel slowly of herself not sure why she doesnt ant to be with me though now Edited July 21, 2014 by lueisredandwhite
Eivuwan Posted July 21, 2014 Posted July 21, 2014 She's not over her ex and she's not ready to be in a relationship.
Assasda Posted July 21, 2014 Posted July 21, 2014 She still wants to be with you. She actually wants to have sex with you. Dont talk yourself out of it
Author lueisredandwhite Posted July 21, 2014 Author Posted July 21, 2014 shes saying she doenst want to put me through ehr craziness
Eivuwan Posted July 21, 2014 Posted July 21, 2014 shes saying she doenst want to put me through ehr craziness When people warn you of these things. Take them seriously. 8
hoping2heal Posted July 21, 2014 Posted July 21, 2014 been taking to this girl, had a fw dates...have had a good time out of nowhere tonight she texted me saying "im not having sex till marriage, if this bothers you we need to end it now" i sai d"not an issue" then she said "im sorry i cant..i mean as un is i cant do you and i" i was shocked i texted back and said "im sorry? i dont understand where this is all coming from" havent heard back since does it sound like i did something..everything was fine till 30 mins ago she texte dback and said she just found out a guy she was with in the past was actually still in a relationship with another girl and she feels awful...and feel slowly of herself not sure why she doesnt ant to be with me though now So in other words... Her: "This will get him to dump me" Um...so I'm not having sex till marriage You: Not a problem Her: "Oh ****..is he for real? Damn...now I'm forced to be honest" Okay, I don't want to date you You: I'm sorry? Her: Yeah, I'm in love with someone else and I was just using you...no no that makes me look bitchy..um..what else can I say..Ok, My ex is with someone else and now I feel lowly about myself (whew) 9
Author lueisredandwhite Posted July 21, 2014 Author Posted July 21, 2014 nooo a guy she was with in the past was still in a relationship with another girl. she had no idea, so basically the guy was cheating on his girlfriend with the girl im dating, wheneevr that was 1
Keenly Posted July 21, 2014 Posted July 21, 2014 She has absolutely no idea what she wants and she is self sabotaging. 1
Author lueisredandwhite Posted July 21, 2014 Author Posted July 21, 2014 She has absolutely no idea what she wants and she is self sabotaging. what should i do
Fondue Posted July 21, 2014 Posted July 21, 2014 She was using "not having sex till marriage" thing as an excuse to try and get you to dump her. She's a nutter. Let her go, bro. (She already said she's crazy... BELIEVE HER). 3
Smarty Pants Posted July 21, 2014 Posted July 21, 2014 what should i do Walk away and don't look back. Not worth the headache
d0nnivain Posted July 21, 2014 Posted July 21, 2014 What you should do is let her walk away. She's lost. She's confused. She's hurt. She's playing games. Either way, she's not worth the effort you want to put into this. Move on.
Author lueisredandwhite Posted July 21, 2014 Author Posted July 21, 2014 What you should do is let her walk away. She's lost. She's confused. She's hurt. She's playing games. Either way, she's not worth the effort you want to put into this. Move on. its just dumb..everything seemed to be going great
Zahara Posted July 21, 2014 Posted July 21, 2014 its just dumb..everything seemed to be going great Of course it was great. People are on their best behavior during the course of a few dates. She used the no sex till marriage as an excuse to end it and when you agreed, she came clean.
mammasita Posted July 21, 2014 Posted July 21, 2014 She was throwing you a bone to let her go, when that didn't work she had to rethink the crazy. You're too nice......
Author lueisredandwhite Posted July 21, 2014 Author Posted July 21, 2014 She was throwing you a bone to let her go, when that didn't work she had to rethink the crazy. You're too nice...... what you mean im to nice
WhatASituation Posted July 21, 2014 Posted July 21, 2014 Agreed with everyone else, she sounds a bit crazy. She'll have lots of drama for you in the foreseeable future.
Assasda Posted July 23, 2014 Posted July 23, 2014 I still stand by my comment. This was a test. I dont know if you past or not
SammySammy Posted July 23, 2014 Posted July 23, 2014 I still stand by my comment. This was a test. I dont know if you past or not He definitely failed.
ChessPieceFace Posted July 23, 2014 Posted July 23, 2014 He definitely failed. Maybe the test was not attracting a crazy woman, and he passed? 2
Author lueisredandwhite Posted July 23, 2014 Author Posted July 23, 2014 Maybe the test was not attracting a crazy woman, and he passed? everythinf is fine now
d0nnivain Posted July 23, 2014 Posted July 23, 2014 everythinf is fine now Everything was great. Then she got weird & you came asking for help. We told you to walk away because the 180 degree personality change was already problematic. Now she's "fine" again. Ha. What are you going to do when she does this again? She will freak again & again. Good luck.
bubbaganoosh Posted July 23, 2014 Posted July 23, 2014 In her own way, she's telling you to move on or be prepared for a ton of BS in the future. You've been warned so now you have a choice to make and if your smart, you'll high step it out of there and find someone new.
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