fred123 Posted July 22, 2014 Posted July 22, 2014 Doesn't this woman work between 11 and 6 ? The type of message you sent did not require any time of quick reply. She saw it and thought to herself she will address when she has more free time. Also why did you write to her on FB? Why not a text? You people are on FB 24-7? Next time just say 'how's your day going'. That type of communication usually will be replied when seen. theres no difference between text and fb
Wisecrack Posted July 22, 2014 Posted July 22, 2014 Did not read. From my experiences, when a girl likes you, you will know - no need for all this watching for signs and why this and why that. 6+ hours to reply? Drop her. She will get the message and either mature up or you can thank yourself and move on and find someone decent.
mtber75 Posted July 22, 2014 Posted July 22, 2014 No, she is. Not initiating, delaying response, not responding to a direct question. Either not interested or leaving you hanging. No thanks. Probably this is true! At the least, her interest level is not all there. I say don't respond or text her back right away.
Mike B. Posted July 22, 2014 Posted July 22, 2014 Doesn't this woman work between 11 and 6 ? The type of message you sent did not require any time of quick reply. She saw it and thought to herself she will address when she has more free time. Also why did you write to her on FB? Why not a text? You people are on FB 24-7? Next time just say 'how's your day going'. That type of communication usually will be replied when seen. Because that would be too simple and less likely to create drama.
organizedchaos Posted July 22, 2014 Posted July 22, 2014 For god's sake, so when I'm here thinking they've lost interest so I'll just move on to the next they're playing freakin games to try and gain more attention when I'm feeling the complete opposite. Hahaha this is ridiculous. I'm just going to wait till she initiates now. If she doesn't before the weeking im going to find another girl this weekend. Problem solved, I don't have time for games. This is why people multi date until you're exclusive. When one flakes, you have options. When you have options you don't stress over delayed texts.
Author Rexxy Posted July 22, 2014 Author Posted July 22, 2014 So after it took about 6 hours to reply with that message I messaged her back saying "surprised you didn't think I had special needs with me also losing the car twice haha" By the way this is after work. Took her 3 hours to reply with "hahahaha I do that all the time" when she saw it at the time I sent it..... And facebook and texting is the same, facebook is free aswell here. Wtf is with these stupid games?
Gaeta Posted July 22, 2014 Posted July 22, 2014 Wtf is with these stupid games? OP wtf are these stupid messages ?? STOP it !!
TigerLilly78 Posted July 22, 2014 Posted July 22, 2014 So after it took about 6 hours to reply with that message I messaged her back saying "surprised you didn't think I had special needs with me also losing the car twice haha" By the way this is after work. Took her 3 hours to reply with "hahahaha I do that all the time" when she saw it at the time I sent it..... And facebook and texting is the same, facebook is free aswell here. Wtf is with these stupid games? Im sorry but you started the game playing she has now picked up on it and is returning the favor why? well cause adult relationships will only be as serious as both parties choose to make it! if things were that important far as dating both of you would have picked up a phone and called each other by now my advice learn from it and move on..I swear its amazeing anyone gets married anymore with how wonderfully socially connected we all are these days..lmao
Author Rexxy Posted July 22, 2014 Author Posted July 22, 2014 OP wtf are these stupid messages ?? STOP it !! ok ok i will, god i hate these stupid games. If I want to tell someone something, or talk to someone, even tell them what im thinking I can't even do it because apparently it works against me. Why can't I just be myself instead of having to analyze everything I do when what I'm doing is been fun and friendly. I don't text her every day, its usually every second day with something this short yet people still say im doing it wrong. ffs
spiderowl Posted July 23, 2014 Posted July 23, 2014 Dating is about interacting with another human being. If you end up simply making statements by text, then there is nothing for her to reply to. The conversation dies and she starts to wonder if you are interested in her at all. I have had plenty of conversations with guys who do what you've been advised to do, focus on the task in hand. Usually, for a guy, that means to get the date and sex if possible. It's so easy to see through this. You get a strong feeling the guy has no interest in you as a person and is focused on getting the outcome he wants. He doesn't ask questions (except with regard to the date or whatever); he doesn't keep the conversation going (because he sees it as a pointless waste of time) so there is none of that conversation ping-pong that happens naturally in any good relationship. Quite frankly, any intelligent woman would filter out the focused texter very quickly and prefer to spend their time on someone who knows how to build a relationship.
LordVader Posted July 23, 2014 Posted July 23, 2014 texting game, among my least practiced aspects of getting my 1st GF/hookup
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