amyrm Posted July 21, 2014 Posted July 21, 2014 I have been talking to this guy for about 2 months. I really like him and I thought/think he likes me but I'm not sure and I'm really confused. We've been on 2 dates both went well. But we haven't been on any more. Yes, some of that has to do with him working a lot. He talks about us having a relationship but yet getting him to text me or call me is hard sometimes. We do text but not much. I know he has been hurt really bad in the past so I know he is hesitant as am I. He told me he has liked me for a long time and is glad we are talking texting but I can't seem to get him to do more. I admit I haven't come out and said I want a relationship with him. He will talk about it in the future but I've never said I want the same. I have told him I like him though. I know that sometimes I have a tendency to be a little distant because I don't want to be that needy or clingy girl so I'm not sure if I'm being too distant. I do like him but don't want to waste my time either. I get he has been hurt but I just need a little bit of a sign. Some of my friends have told me to tell him how I feel and ask him how he feels. I have also been told to ask him where he wants us to go. But yet again, I don't want to be clingy or needy. I'm not sure if he is scared due to his past hurt, if i'm being too distant and he is confused about what I want, or if he isn't interested anymore or what. Any advice is appreciated.
PerfectStorm Posted July 21, 2014 Posted July 21, 2014 How old is the guy? My experience is that if a guy isn't asking to see you, text you or calling you he's not into you...or he has a girlfriend which also means... he's not that into you. Have you ever been to his house? Does he mostly text m-f during working hours? I see a bunch of red flags here a guy doesn't talk to a girl for 2 months about the future but not exhibit tangible interest.
JungleLover Posted July 21, 2014 Posted July 21, 2014 The guy is not into you. Being hurt in the past generally does not hold a guy back from pursuing the woman he wants. Think of it as a non-factor here. It is really too early to be having some deep talk about where things are going. After two dates, things are either going or they are not. Don't ask him how he feels. He is showing you.
Assasda Posted July 21, 2014 Posted July 21, 2014 I think the case could be that youre the one doing all the calling, so he doesnt need to call... that has happened with me before. Also, Do you see each other and kiss each other? Hopefully yes. After one of those kisses, just say "Can we be BF and GF" and it will be great.
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