supportlove Posted July 20, 2014 Posted July 20, 2014 Break ups are HARD. I post my story couple days ago and received a lot of kind helps and brilliant advises. They were like wake up calls and I soon realize I should cut loose, do some damage controls and move on with my life. I saw couple posts here said that they are still heart broken after 6 months or even a year or two. Some still want to their ex back after years. I don't want that happens to me. Damages already caused and I don't want to scarify myself anymore. Handling the situation well with a broken heart is really difficult. I would like to hear people at the same situation (just broke up) share their post breakup re-actions. Like to form a support group and encourage each other to look forward.
Author supportlove Posted July 20, 2014 Author Posted July 20, 2014 (edited) Here I am. 3 weeks since broke up. 1) NC since the day we broke up. * We are still Facebook friends. I do post more on FB after we broke up. Mostly photos, like hanging out with friends and there I am, still smiling, looks okay (hard to look at my best right now, i've been sad) . etc. I do want him to see them. I guess a hid message - don't forget me. I'm doing well? What's the point? I don't know. I'm not used to the life without him. 2) I force myself to go out with friends to get my mind off sadness. 3) Responded to dudes' pick up talks during random events. Also, went out for a blind date. just to remind myself there are plenty fishes in the sea. They all went awful. I guess I am still at the stage compare everyone to my ex. They made me want to beg my ex to come back. I will cut off those until I pull myself together. 4) break down occasionally. getting better though. From cry every day, to once every couple or several days. 5) start to think my ex less and less. Edited July 20, 2014 by supportlove
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