Kermit76 Posted July 20, 2014 Posted July 20, 2014 Wasn't really sure how I was going to feel the day of my ex's bd. Which is today. I will admit I played the scenario back and forth. Should I wish her a simple bd text? Not do anything at all? Told myself when the day arrived I will know what to do. Can't explain it but I feel great today. Not contacting her today. Just another day. Almost a sense of closure for me. NC for a month and a half. Does she care? Probably not. Learning I am in control of my actions and decisions. She doesn't get to hurt me anymore. Moving on I will continue. Tomorrow is a new day. 5
flitzanu Posted July 20, 2014 Posted July 20, 2014 no you shouldn't contact her. she doesn't care, and you shouldn't either. it won't gain you a thing but more worrying if she will respond...which she won't.
FortunateSon Posted July 20, 2014 Posted July 20, 2014 Well played Kermit, you have done well not to send her a birthday wish. This will be a bit of a milestone for you, embrace it and keep moving forward.
erklat Posted July 20, 2014 Posted July 20, 2014 I felt so good when I didn't acknowledge her birthday. Never ever break NC for nothing and especially not special days.
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