lueisredandwhite Posted July 20, 2014 Posted July 20, 2014 if its a second or first date, is it normal to be a bit nervous. if its a girl that i could se something happening with i tend to get nervous and dont open up as much. I still talk but you can just tell i'm a bit nervous. is it normal? is it a turn off?
TheNewMe2014 Posted July 20, 2014 Posted July 20, 2014 Of course it's normal to be nervous. We are introducing ourselves to someone we hoped will find us fascinating and interesting. Almost everybody is nervous - the level is dependent on their personality, experiences, etc. You should feel slightly nervous - it means you want them to like you. But don't let it drive you - women find confidence attractive. Come across as nervous, it may be cute - but could also be a turn-off. Don't think that the most attractive, popular people do not get nervous. They do as well. The key is to have self confidence in you and what you have to offer. Nervous is good - provides adrenaline and makes you a little more self-aware.
johnsonracer Posted July 20, 2014 Posted July 20, 2014 if its ten dates in yes thatd be bad..but 2nd date? nah
Assasda Posted July 20, 2014 Posted July 20, 2014 Its normal, once you get more experience you'll realize that people are people and that you have nothing to be afraid of. No expectations always leads to a good date
Author lueisredandwhite Posted July 20, 2014 Author Posted July 20, 2014 i usually get nervous on the first couple of dates but am fine after
d0nnivain Posted July 21, 2014 Posted July 21, 2014 New experiences have an element of the unknown in them -- whether it's a 1st date, a new job, going somewhere for the 1st time. Some butterflies are therefore quite natural. It's endearing to a point.
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