star_shooter Posted July 20, 2014 Posted July 20, 2014 (edited) Hi All:) (This is different from my other question so I posted 2 separate ones) I've been talking with this girl on the phone for awhile. I really like her. She wasn't ready to meet in person just yet. (I met her and got her number in person), but the lunch meeting/date she wasn't ready yet. We talk on the phone a lot and she is happy to hear from me. No, she knows I like her romantically and just as a friend. My question is, and I know itls the chase, but how long does it take until she is ready to meet me somewhere? She is very very shy and quiet. What are some ways I can assure her I am genuine? and will not hurt her. I know it takes awhile, but if you have any advice. This girl is special to me and I will wait, etc for as long as it takes. Thank you All:) Edited July 20, 2014 by star_shooter To add to the description.
d0nnivain Posted July 21, 2014 Posted July 21, 2014 It depends. For some the chase takes minutes. For others like your shy friend it will take longer. You have to make her comfortable.
PegNosePete Posted July 21, 2014 Posted July 21, 2014 If someone was not interested in meeting me within a week, I would lose interest and move on. I'm not here to solve other people's insecurity/nervousness/"not ready" issues... I'm there to meet people. 1
fred123 Posted July 21, 2014 Posted July 21, 2014 Hi All:) (This is different from my other question so I posted 2 separate ones) I've been talking with this girl on the phone for awhile. I really like her. She wasn't ready to meet in person just yet. (I met her and got her number in person), but the lunch meeting/date she wasn't ready yet. We talk on the phone a lot and she is happy to hear from me. No, she knows I like her romantically and just as a friend. My question is, and I know itls the chase, but how long does it take until she is ready to meet me somewhere? She is very very shy and quiet. What are some ways I can assure her I am genuine? and will not hurt her. I know it takes awhile, but if you have any advice. This girl is special to me and I will wait, etc for as long as it takes. Thank you All:) ur comment on she knows u like her romantucally and just as a friend is a contradixtion
Assasda Posted July 21, 2014 Posted July 21, 2014 First of all, there is no chase. This is not a Pepe le pew cartoon. You cant wait forever for a girl. You need to value yourself, and value your time, or no one else will. If she cant meet with you, or give you an excuse, you should certainly move on. Please dont think Romantic Comedy movies equate to real life
Author star_shooter Posted July 21, 2014 Author Posted July 21, 2014 Hi All:) (This is different from my other question so I posted 2 separate ones) I've been talking with this girl on the phone for awhile. I really like her. She wasn't ready to meet in person just yet. (I met her and got her number in person), but the lunch meeting/date she wasn't ready yet. We talk on the phone a lot and she is happy to hear from me. No, she knows I like her romantically and not just as a friend. My question is, and I know itls the chase, but how long does it take until she is ready to meet me somewhere? She is very very shy and quiet. What are some ways I can assure her I am genuine? and will not hurt her. I know it takes awhile, but if you have any advice. This girl is special to me and I will wait, etc for as long as it takes. Thank you All:) Yes, it is supposed to say: No, she knows I like her romantically and not just as a friend.
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