jessywalshe Posted July 20, 2014 Posted July 20, 2014 Hi guys I had my fourth meet up with a man last night. First meet was few days after meeting on dating site – 3hr coffee and chat and ended with hug and arrangement to meet again 2nd meet – he took me for dinner to my favourite restaurant, I drove, he paid for meal. No hug or kiss. Sent email next day to say I looked beautiful. 3rd meet – coffee during day – chatted for 2hrs and we bumped into some of my work colleagues and chatted with them 4th meet – last night. he picked me up and took me for dinner and paid. i asked if he wanted to come in for coffee/beer and he said he’d an early morning but would come in next time. No kiss. Has talked about lots of places he wants us to go together and things he wants us to do?? He is very quiet and reserved but what do you think?
Survivor12 Posted July 20, 2014 Posted July 20, 2014 I'm a bit confused by your question...Dating = going out on dates. You have been going on dates, right? Then you are dating.
Gaeta Posted July 20, 2014 Posted July 20, 2014 Well yes you are dating but he is not your boyfriend yet. You are casually dating. What you're doing is feel each other to see if you have any chemistry and common interest. Do you enjoy his company? Do you have any common interests? Do you find him attractive? Do you wish for him to kiss you? Maybe he has not kissed you because he's playing it safe, he may be waiting for a green light from you or he may be shy. There are no rules saying YOU cannot initiate a kiss. I prefer being playful and say something like 'now is a really good moment to kiss me'.
Author jessywalshe Posted July 20, 2014 Author Posted July 20, 2014 Hi Gaeta Thank you very much for your reply. Yes I really enjoy his company, we have lots of common interests, I find him very attractive and I am dying for him to kiss me!! I think the fact that he pays for our dates, even though I've offered too, kind of shows me that he doesn't see us as just hanging out. He also dresses up and wears aftershave :-)
Gaeta Posted July 20, 2014 Posted July 20, 2014 Hi Gaeta Thank you very much for your reply. Yes I really enjoy his company, we have lots of common interests, I find him very attractive and I am dying for him to kiss me!! I think the fact that he pays for our dates, even though I've offered too, kind of shows me that he doesn't see us as just hanging out. He also dresses up and wears aftershave :-) Sounds like you have a keeper You've done a lot of restaurants and coffee shops, about something less formal like a picnic, heading to an amusement park, the beach, roller blading, something where you'd get a laugh together, hold hands, with lots of kissing opportunities.
Author jessywalshe Posted July 20, 2014 Author Posted July 20, 2014 Hi Gaeta I have asked him if he would like to come round for dinner during the week and he said he would love too. Also my housewarming party is this weekend and he said he would like to come to that also. He has also asked me to go round to his to see his library - he is a publisher/author and I am obsessed with books :-) Does that sound good do you think? 1
Gaeta Posted July 20, 2014 Posted July 20, 2014 Hi Gaeta I have asked him if he would like to come round for dinner during the week and he said he would love too. Also my housewarming party is this weekend and he said he would like to come to that also. He has also asked me to go round to his to see his library - he is a publisher/author and I am obsessed with books :-) Does that sound good do you think? Yes absolutely, being invited over after 4 dates is appropriate. Sounds like everything is developing smoothly. When people are genuine and compatible that's how it unfolds. 1
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