NoLeafClover Posted July 22, 2014 Posted July 22, 2014 It's different if words were just exchanged face to face with noone around and things stayed between you two no matter how terrible both of you were to each other vs Selling you out to the world, bringing you down than cheating on you with coworkers lowering you even more. Forget about the talk and the makeup you had after $h*t when down. That does not fix the image she created about you to others no matter how nice she was being afterwards. The damage is done and is not repairable. I don't know about you but I have a lot more dignity for myself than to even say HI to someone that tried to destroy my image to those around me and make others perceive a negative picture of me. There are only two different types of people that reach that level with someone; the haters and your enemies. Whichever one she falls under...You need to let the haters HATE and your enemies ENVY you. Like that song say; "Make my name taste like @$$ when you speak it, See me in the streets, your jewelry you can keep it, That'd be our little secret" Don't show you care don't show you want to reach other. If she was that ugly to you, you are either going to be uglier or stay silent. Since you don't want to be like her, you should not say anything and stay NC until you are 100% moved on. Otherwise, if she contacts you and you want to be ugly, you go to the police and file a police report for stalking which gives you the possibility to file for a personal protection order. But that would be taking it too fare (but then again so did she)
Author Natsu21 Posted July 23, 2014 Author Posted July 23, 2014 Update: Guy she left me for was a player. Dumps her for someone else.... She LITERALLY gets on a confessions site and says "There are no good guys anymore. What happened to all of them? I keep getting screwed over!" I wish this was a joke.
Sugarkane Posted July 23, 2014 Posted July 23, 2014 She sounds nasty and her friends sound like aholes. No good guys? I'm glad to hear someone this awful, chose someone equally awful to date.
Sugarkane Posted July 23, 2014 Posted July 23, 2014 Update: Guy she left me for was a player. Dumps her for someone else.... She LITERALLY gets on a confessions site and says "There are no good guys anymore. What happened to all of them? I keep getting screwed over!" I wish this was a joke. Lol she got what she deserved.
Sunberry Posted July 23, 2014 Posted July 23, 2014 Hell no! Then she cheated along with all those other things? Double hell no.
Author Natsu21 Posted July 23, 2014 Author Posted July 23, 2014 You're right guys. But question...have any of you contacted your ex after a few months? How did it go?
shoegal4 Posted July 23, 2014 Posted July 23, 2014 You're right guys. But question...have any of you contacted your ex after a few months? How did it go? My ex up and disappeared on me - which is almost as painful as someone cheating. I would chew off my left arm before I picked up the phone to play catch up with someone who completely disregards my feelings.
Author Natsu21 Posted July 26, 2014 Author Posted July 26, 2014 I'll post an update. Ran into her at the mall. We contacted. It was horrible. I'm telling you, even after all time, it was evident... She had changed...drastically...into someone I never recognized. I love the girl I was with when I was in college. This person was barely recognizable. Guys, do yourself a favor...keep NC, stay NC. 1
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