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This girlfriend of mine that I met through my ex, texted me last night and threw in the conversation that she met up with my ex "therefore you and I have to meet as well".

I asked her if there was anything I should know and then I went like "u know what? I don't even care".

She goes "oh, great! I was hoping you'd say that! There's nothing to say... Don't want you to hope for something that isn't there".

Then I tell her I'm at a festival and she's like "there you go, have fun :)".

 

I understand that she's in a though position because she loves me a lot but she is also her friend too, however I don't understand if she was simply relieved that I didn't wanna talk about their meet-up or if she was relieved to avoid telling me things that might hurt even if, as a friend, she might have told me if I never said I don't care?

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This girlfriend of mine that I met through my ex, texted me last night and threw in the conversation that she met up with my ex "therefore you and I have to meet as well".

I asked her if there was anything I should know and then I went like "u know what? I don't even care".

She goes "oh, great! I was hoping you'd say that! There's nothing to say... Don't want you to hope for something that isn't there".

Then I tell her I'm at a festival and she's like "there you go, have fun :)".

 

I understand that she's in a though position because she loves me a lot but she is also her friend too, however I don't understand if she was simply relieved that I didn't wanna talk about their meet-up or if she was relieved to avoid telling me things that might hurt even if, as a friend, she might have told me if I never said I don't care?

 

Wait a minute....let me get this straight.

 

Your girlfriend is friends with your ex?

 

Wow...someone call FEMA...this has disaster written all over it.

 

You don't eat and shiz in the same place.

 

Chances are your ex told something about you to your girlfriend. She's not quite sure HOW to say it, but it's bothering her, but since you seemed disinterested, she's playing it off.

 

But trust me...something's going on in her head, and if you were smart, you'd do one of two things.

 

1. get to the bottom of this.

2. get to the bottom of this.

 

Cause she's gonna hold it in her head till you talk to her about it.

 

Just my two cents.

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Wait a minute....let me get this straight.

 

Your girlfriend is friends with your ex?

 

Wow...someone call FEMA...this has disaster written all over it.

 

You don't eat and shiz in the same place.

 

Chances are your ex told something about you to your girlfriend. She's not quite sure HOW to say it, but it's bothering her, but since you seemed disinterested, she's playing it off.

 

But trust me...something's going on in her head, and if you were smart, you'd do one of two things.

 

1. get to the bottom of this.

2. get to the bottom of this.

 

Cause she's gonna hold it in her head till you talk to her about it.

 

Just my two cents.

 

Girlfriend as in girl friend, best friend. Sorry for misleading.

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